"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kids TV Convo Tip

Sexus

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Ive had alot of success chatting to girls about old kiddies tv progs and ads from when they were young...

This has the effect of allowing them to regress to a period of (presumable) happiness, lowering thier guard.

Not only this but it will make her laugh and strike a chord with her in that you both have the same sense of humour. The fact that you remember something that she remembers about her childhood is gold.

Try it...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Sexus
Ive had alot of success chatting to girls about old kiddies tv progs and ads from when they were young...

Try it...
This is true... You can talk about songs too...

But be careful with the infamous "do you live in the past??" question... A successful DJ looks ahead...
 
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