"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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kid rock/scott stapp sex tape discussion

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*google this subject and view the short preview video clip*

observe kid rock's body language/mannerisms. you would think he'd be more confident/****y and sure of himself since he's such a bad ass on stage. but surprisingly, he comes across as shy/timid & unsure in the presence of the four strippers! scott stapp surprisingly comes across as confident.

*)when rock enters the tour bus, he weakly asks, "can i come in or no?" surprisingly, scott stapp tools him by saying, "no." yep, that's rock seeking approval/asking for permission. lesson to be learned: do what you want to do and don't ask for permission. asking for permission is seeking approval to some extent

*)rock raises his hand like a geek and says, "i'm bob nice to meet you," when greeting one of the girls. the girl asks how he's doing and he says, "i'm pretty good." check out his body language and mannerisms. if rock was a regular guy and used the same approach w/ the same girl at a bar, he would have likely gotten shot down by his weak body language and voice tone. she gives rock a hug and he shyly turns away!

like mystery says, a lot of people are under the impression that it's all about attraction when it's really all about survival&replication value/social value. i don't think kid rock is that good-looking. and i doubt any regular guy would pull chicks if he modeled rock's body language/mannerisms from the sex tape. but it doesn't matter for rock since he has the strongest social value, being a rock star.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Those two both have $ and fame. No game is involved and that is fact!
 

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i'm surprised to hear Kid is that way

from interviews I saw he always seemed to come off as extremely confident
 

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Don't forget that you have to calibrate value. If you come off TOO hot-sh!t, the girls are going to feel unqualified to be with you. I haven't watched the video clip yet, but there's a chance Rock is purposely acting shy and timid so that he doesn't overly intimidate the girls.
 

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Regarding the body language thing: either Kid Rock is extremely smart.....or extremely stupid.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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john_1234

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Originally posted by Duke
Don't forget that you have to calibrate value. If you come off TOO hot-sh!t, the girls are going to feel unqualified to be with you. I haven't watched the video clip yet, but there's a chance Rock is purposely acting shy and timid so that he doesn't overly intimidate the girls.
good point; never thought about that. but if you check the video out, it doesn't seem like he was acting. if he was acting, he's really good at it and should do acting on the side (maybe he already has?)
 

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Guys, what you have to understand is that Kid rock can act however the fyck he wants to. He could prance around wearing nothing but a tiara and a tutu singing like a fycking fairy, and guess what: The girls would still fyck the shyt out of both of them. Why, because they're rock stars. (And I'm guessing they also got paid)

What reason do those two guys have to try acting macho 'n shyt? What's the point? Just smile and make small talk with the girls and know it doesn't matter what you say/do, they're gonna fyck you anyways.

These guys operate on such a different level than the rest of us that some of your heads will explode trying to think about it.

Hell, those girls probably would have let those two guys shyt in their mouths, then make them all french kiss eachother.

Why? Fame. Any questions?
 
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