Kid Embarrasses me in front of guys and the women!

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

So this kid loves to make fun of me of not being able to getting the girls. He humilulates me in front of a group of guys saying how I can't get the chicks, in which even though they hate him they will join in. Also when I am talking to the girls, he'll stay "You are better than he is" or "He's flirting with you" and keeps bringing me down. He has only had a few gf's, 2 were w$#@es and thinks he can get any girl he wants. He continues to get the best of me by embarrassing me in front of both the group of guys in gym class and the girls who I talk to in the hall. Today, I was so close to punching him, I was so close...but not worth one week suspension in my book. How do I get over the fact that he keeps humiliating me in front of the girls? Should I show him who is boss and try to find a gf right away, whether she is good or not--just to show him up?? By the way, I was very pi$$ed at him how badly he embarrassed me and there is no way to "let it go" and for me to brush it off.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Dude it's not a big deal... you'll see you'll turn out fine when you get older

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1hd1jH86las

Watch that.

---but in other words i'll edit this with a real reply in a minute.

K it's been a minute...

beat his ass.

but make sure you...
1) can
2) give him a REAL warning... something like the Hulk "You're making me angry!!! <roar loudly> This is my last warning before I go crazy... ME HUNGRY!!! ME WANT REVENGE!!! ME HUNGRY FOR REVENGE!!! <roar loudly again>"

then beat his ass if he continues.

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

Yeah, I was very close to doing that. I got in his face, he then turned around and started smiling, like hes tough $h1t. I should of dropped him right there...Wow, I was steamed for the whole day. Thing is, you get suspended from school for five days. He embarrasses me and continues to do so--I wanted to drop him right when he started to laugh. Should I just pick up some random girls so show other ppl I am not a pathetic person?

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Should I just pick up some random girls so show other ppl I am not a pathetic person?

No, seriously make him think twice about disrespecting you. Just warn him next time, next time you hear it directly from him... or even from someone else... that you and him will have to deal with it.

remember what these SoSuave zealots would say... "you're the prize"... you don't need to pull a girl off the streets as a trophy... you're the trophy once you set everything straight... then girls wont disrespect you anymore hopefully.

honestly to me, violence fixes many things... but ONLY as a last resort. THAT's why i say just warn him once, twice... three times maybe. Fourth time you hear it straight out of his mouth... drop him.

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

What if I happen to lose the fight though? I am a lot stronger than him, but he is quicker and has been 3-0 in the fights he's been in. Not saying I am a pu$$y because if I keep hearing his bs, I WILL attempt to drop him. You do not disrespect me like that especially if he thinks he is better than me--hes not, I know it, he knows it, everyone knows it! I hear it from this kid once a day about how I can't get the ladies. I have been improving, but not necessarily producing the results I wanr, but a few average girls have liked me. How do I not let his words not bother me--getting pretty much humiliated in front of a few guys in the lockerroom is kind of embarrassing...

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Well if youre talkin to a girl and he says "Hes flirting with you", etc.

Tell the girl all flirty-like that "He's just messin around, he know's i can drop him in a second."

don't say it all mad and as if he's getting to you... treat it like you can brush it off.

 

[MrConfidence]

You know what I think? You should just ignore the kid. I've been in this situation very many times, and I can tell you, fighting isn't going to do anything but make you look worse. Besides, win or lose, there's really no satisfaction. For instance, there was this fat kid I couldn't stand, he was just rude, fruity and annoying, and I'm glad he moved! I can't understand why so many people were friends with that jerk(Probably because of that fake "nice" act he puts on, when he's not showing his true colors). Anyway moving on we had a fight at the end of the year because I was tired of him harassing me, and kicked his ass pretty badly until someone broke it up. And what was my reward for kicking his ass? A one day suspension.

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

Are you sure fighting did nothing? At my school, its 5 days for first hit, 3 days for a regular self defense.I can;t brush it off because I am not as strong mentally as I want to be. Seriously, I was one more insult away from throwing the first punch and putting in my 5 days later. All he does it insult me, whether he is kidding or not. He's like "you can't get a gf" and "you will never get laid" and keeps speading it on...I was so close to asking a below-average girl who liked me to go out with me, just to end the pain...

 

[MrConfidence]

Are you sure fighting did nothing? At my school, its 5 days for first hit, 3 days for a regular self defense.I can;t brush it off because I am not as strong mentally as I want to be. Seriously, I was one more insult away from throwing the first punch and putting in my 5 days later. All he does it insult me, whether he is kidding or not. He's like "you can't get a gf" and "you will never get laid" and keeps speading it on...I was so close to asking a below-average girl who liked me to go out with me, just to end the pain...

Tell you what, if he continues to joke on you, either tell someone of higher authority like a teacher or try your best to ignore him. You know, perhaps if you don't get mad him, or act like you don't care, he'll just screw off. Or perhaps you could even make a comeback that says something bad about him. Besides, if a girl ditches you just because some ass said you couldn't get girls, screw her.

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

I think telling a person of higher authority is being a huge pu$$y in my opinion. But I do think your right. I need to ignore him and not let it bother me, although inside I get really nervous and have a fire of adrenaline running through my veins telling myself "do something about it, don't let this fool disrespect you-you are better than him." Although people always say if it doesn't bother you, they will stop. Any other advice you think you can give me?

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

But I do think your right.

WHAT ARE YOU SAYING???

DO NOT TAKE ADVICE FROM Mr. Confidence, look at his situation... from what he writes about himself, hes a loser at his school.. AND on a forum... you don't want to take advice from him.

I said fight as a last resort... after giving him plenty warnings...

Make the kid think twice before he disrespects you.

And if you're going to resolve it in words, make yourself sound witty... and don't start name-calling and throwing out insults.

 

[MrConfidence]

I'm flattered you're so hellbent on getting this guy not to listen to me. It must really mean something to you. Alas, you calling me a loser means nothing if you don't know anything about me.

 

[Nighthawk]

He sounds like a funny guy. Don't get mad, get even. And not with your fists, that just proves he beat you with his mind.

Learn to argue - hey the internet's right here. Don't waste time defending yourself against his jibes, hit back hard with *funny* digs at his shortcomings. List his faults here and I'm sure you'll get some zingers you can use. Humiliate him, enjoy it.

But more importantly, work on your anger. Don't get into fights over jokes or 'disrespect.' Especially if you might end up humiliated physically as well as verbally.

 

[guayaballer]

does he have a girl? if not bust his balls on how he aint getting any ***** eighter

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

or pull out a rocket launcher and shoot his girl in front of him.

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

All the flaws I can think of--gimme some clever ones fellas:

--He shaves his legs for biking (races using a bike and shaves his legs haha)
--He had long, girly hair and recently got it cut in which it is very short now
--Not very well-liked in school, has a comment for everything in class (when someone says something he always has to add a comment...)
--He always thinks he is right and thinks he's a know-it-all
--He loves to shower with guys after gym(not even part of the football team where its usually a tradition for the football players; haha idk why)
--Gimme some gay jokes on him (although he'd probably come back with me not getting a girl...won't be good for me)
--Did I mention he shaves his legs and arms like a little pu$$y?

Any comebacks?

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

man thats some good stuff you got on him... i wouldn't know any gay jokes... but 40 Year Old Virgin gay jokes comes to mind that you can make up instantly.

"do you know how i know you're gay?... you shave your legs, etc."

 

[MrConfidence]

Use fighting as a last resort. Infact, don't even fight the guy unless he touches you first.

 

[CCKazi007]

Gosh why are highschool kids so dumb these days. Warn him twice and make it clear that you will hurt him if he continues. If he's kidding around and just wanna be your friend then you need to get a sense of humor. But, if it isn't then kick his ass OUTSIDE of school so you don't get in trouble. Make sure you have witnesses that'll spread it, so ppl will know the truth. Even if the teachers hear about it they can't really do anything cuz it's off campus. Teachers won't help all they'll do is have you two dicuss the "issue" and tell him to stop, but he prob won't.

 

[Mjazz]

look, dont use that crap against him. Next time he says some crap about you, get up in his face, I mean close, like an inch or 2 and get ready to fight, because he will try to hit you, and youll only get 3 days for self defense. If he doesnt hit you, then you win, and he is a ***** forever.