"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I was a party with my girlfriend tonight. I was taking it easy just kind of chilling the whole time. Anyway sometime during the event I make a comment about my friend, which actually was a compliment, and my girlfriend takes it the wrong way and standing up for her friend, kicks me in the balls. So obviously I was in excruciating pain. I'm down on the floor recovering for a couple of minutes. After I get some composure back I pretty much ignore my girlfriend for the rest of the party.

My question for you guys is should I dump her? I mean that is quite a low blow (pun intended). She has always been somewhat physical, like punching me and what not but shes a girl, so that didn't really bother me. I figured she was just being playful. But regardless of male or female, if you kick someone in the balls its gonna hurt. I'm seriously angry at her. I just can't tell if I'm justified in thinking that way or just over reacting.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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She has always been somewhat physical, like punching me and what not
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Jesus, DUMP THE NUTCASE!!!!!!

Don't even talk to her about it. No good bye. No closure. No nothing. Never say another word to her.

Walk the fvck away.
 
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War Against Betaism

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I remember getting kicked in the balls, girls really don't understand how sensitive we are there. I was literally on the floor for 5 minutes. All my friends would offer their hand to help me up but I was in so much pain I couldn't leave my hands down there.

Though I don't think you should dump her. Tell her you won't take that sh1t from her and if she does it again, then you dump her.
 
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Do not tolerate violence of any kind, be it physical, emotional or of any other form. Dump her immediately. Do not even talk to her about it. Do not talk to anyone about it. They all know why.

If you have witnesses to this, file an assault report with the police. Make sure she knows you talked to the police by dropping a word to the right people. They will get it to her, and the world will know that she is a nutcase.

Women think they can get away with stuff like this, but physical violence for the sake of argument is not appropriate in any form. This person should not be in your life any more, not even for an apology. Do not accept any apologies.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Was she drunk? How long have you been together? What's it like? Is she hot? How much do you like her?

It really isn't that simple. I might say dump her but you could just lay down your boundry and threaten her and make sure it doesn't happen again.
 
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It really isn't that simple.
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You're saying that if a girl did this to you, in the middle of party, in front of all your friends, there's a possibility you wouldn't dump her?

Maybe if he had cheated on her, and she found out and kicked him in the balls, ok ya i would get that...

But HE SAID SOMETHING about a friend. Mature people (i.e. people worth having a relationship with) don't kick people in the balls for saying something about a friend.
 
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I would stay away from abusive hors! Why date a girl with such a aggressive nature?
 
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Akyu said:
So I was a party with my girlfriend tonight. I was taking it easy just kind of chilling the whole time. Anyway sometime during the event I make a comment about my friend, which actually was a compliment, and my girlfriend takes it the wrong way and standing up for her friend, kicks me in the balls. So obviously I was in excruciating pain. I'm down on the floor recovering for a couple of minutes. After I get some composure back I pretty much ignore my girlfriend for the rest of the party.

My question for you guys is should I dump her? I mean that is quite a low blow (pun intended). She has always been somewhat physical, like punching me and what not but shes a girl, so that didn't really bother me. I figured she was just being playful. But regardless of male or female, if you kick someone in the balls its gonna hurt. I'm seriously angry at her. I just can't tell if I'm justified in thinking that way or just over reacting.
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Dump that *****. but just for a clarification, did you say something about a male or female friend? and was it your friend or hers' or both?

Anyhow she's a b!tch for balling you in the middle of the party. She's a ***** for doing it at all. don't tolerate that; don't even question it. Either don't talk to her again, or say "that was totally uncalled for, a total disrespect", express to her what you felt then dump her ass after making her feel like ****. :) Either case, don't let her get away with it.
 
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