"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kicked a girl out, now feeling bad

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Last night kicked a girl out of my house because she acts like a slvt when gets drunk. I'm not Mr perfection either, I get jealous over nothing. Anyway, we were getting ready to go to bed, and she calls this guy, she calls friend, and starts chatting him up. I tell her to come over and hang, she refuses, and I tell her maybe you should take her things and leave. To which she hangs, and start putting everything in her bag. I stop her, and we go to sleep. Then alcohol done it's duty on me, she didn't want anything to do with me touching her. Actually this is another minus with her, for a week that we've been together, we had sex 3 times, only once it was mutual, 1 time she got bored and kicked me off her I fvcked her once she went to sleep, and 1 time I forced her a little bit - with her I just end up jerking off. So under the gun I thought to myself, if one week in we having these problems, with sex, with her acting like a slvt when drunk, to hell with it. I was absolutely right. But now I feel bad that I kicked her out, and want to get her back with me. Is this a natural feeling?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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feeling like an afc natural?? hmmmmm
 

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You sound like you have lots of problems...

First... watch out your drinking habits. Dont get too drunk and try to evade women who tend to drinks a lot. They tend to loose their composure.

STOP being a jealous d8ck!! Just because she starts to talk to some guy doesn't mean she is cheating.

If she disrespect you and is unable to appreciate your company.... KICK HER!!! she's not worth it. You are the greatest catch and you shall be treated like one.

A girl worth keeping should be CRAZY nuts for you.
IMO I dont think she's into you that much. Just go find out someone else.
 

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Leopold said:
You sound like you have lots of problems...
Because he is a troll.

His only problem is a lack of better things to do with his free time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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