"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I don't know much about this, but am looking at non-gym ways of improving my health/endurance/body. I'm just wondering if anyone knows the cons and pro's of kickboxing, but not in a sense that 'you'll know how to fight' etc. Moreso in a 'it'll do 'this' to your body'

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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your shoulders are going to get huge and toned. Shed a lot of weight
 

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Go to a real kickboxing class rather than one of these cardio-kick taebo classes if you can.

You will increase your aerobic and anaerobic capacity, lose weight, put on a little muscle, improve your flexibility, footwork, timing, hand eye coordination and mental focus.

It's a fantastic workout and you'll get out what you put in.
 

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Everything silverfox said, but as a con kickboxing makes it tougher to bulk since you're burning more caleries and increasing your metabolism (though not impossible - a lot of the guys at my KB gym are still huge). You'll also only build a little muscle from kickboxing alone if you were out of shape before starting. The main benefit of kickboxing, other than self defence, is aerobic exercise and endurance.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My Shoulders started to get bigger after learning Muay Thai, maybe its also the Military Presses that I do. Kickboxing benefits you in every aspect as a human being, just like any form of Martial arts.

In terms of fitness, you'll build tone, get some muscles, Kickboxing is a anaerobic sport, just so you know. You'll soon learn to become faster with your punches and kicks. I started Kickboxing (MT) with a flabby body, that, along with weights and cardio had me lose my gut, I built muscles, and I was punching faster and more powerful. My endurance levels are better than before.

In terms of mental aspects, it'll make you more confident, just like all forms of exercise. But me personally, I like to look at Kickboxing as something that'll eliminate fear. I don't spar, but if you do spar its even better. Just facing people you don't really know that well in your training school, you don't know how hard they'll kick or how fast they'll punch... we have this thing that if we get hit by the other guy during our pad work, its our fault, and it should be for no being ready. I went in the gym all nervous and scared of people, but now, I don't care who I train with in the gym, I'm not even scared of getting hit.


Hope that helps. Do kickboxing, its a cardio alternative.
 

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And hey! In england. If you do this kickboxing stuff long enough. Your hands are classed as deadly weapons.... nuff said.
 

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I'm doing muay thay again, after having a 2 year break...busy again for a few months, preparing myself for matches.

I didn't get muscles from it (ectomorph bastard I guess), but your endurance will improve greatly.

Blowfish: no sparring?! Why the hell not?? You ain't dying from it, and getting hurt... You say you aren't scared, why don't you spar then?

Everyone spars over here, but we are the muay thai (well actually k-1) country of the world of course (Aerts, Hoost, Bonjasky, Schilt) :).

The negative side of training hard and getting more advanced:
- You will have trouble walking if you get enough low kicks. They hurt.
- There is a chance of getting a black eye, but I hardly see it.
- Bloodnoses or your mouth/lips getting a little crack is not that uncommon, but that isn't painfull and dissapears relatively quick.

This was just training, not matches.

And last, but certainly not least, most dojo's have an awesome spirit and a cool social environment. :) (we even got some hot chickies :p)
 

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Originally posted by FOL!!!
I'm doing muay thay again, after having a 2 year break...busy again for a few months, preparing myself for matches.

I didn't get muscles from it (ectomorph bastard I guess), but your endurance will improve greatly.

Blowfish: no sparring?! Why the hell not?? You ain't dying from it, and getting hurt... You say you aren't scared, why don't you spar then?

Everyone spars over here, but we are the muay thai (well actually k-1) country of the world of course (Aerts, Hoost, Bonjasky, Schilt) :).

The negative side of training hard and getting more advanced:
- You will have trouble walking if you get enough low kicks. They hurt.
- There is a chance of getting a black eye, but I hardly see it.
- Bloodnoses or your mouth/lips getting a little crack is not that uncommon, but that isn't painfull and dissapears relatively quick.

This was just training, not matches.

And last, but certainly not least, most dojo's have an awesome spirit and a cool social environment. :) (we even got some hot chickies :p)
I only sparred once, we don't do it often in our gym, only the really advance guys do it, and I would spar if I got another opportunity, just that I can't find another partner.
 
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