She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This is about the dumbest post I've ever read on sosuave. You, sir, are an idiot.I put my money on McGregor. Think about it, he is making a come back, he chose a peace of meat that he knows he will beat. Something about these so called "Russians" you must know, if the name sounds retarded, like Khabib that means they are from north caucases, muslims. They all talk sh1t and parrot, but when it comes down to it, they deflate. That sh1t about Khabib that he wrestles bears as a kid, that's all bull sh1t. You don't wrestle bears, even a small bear will rip you apart and sh1t on you.
Look at best moments of Khabib
Now at best moments of McGregor
Are you kidding me? McGregor wins.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I stick to my position. Khabib has a slight edge. This fight is becoming more intriguing as time goes on. There's a little bit more of a buildup and more predictions are coming in. I welcome the trash talking as it makes the fight itself more enjoyable to watch.
Why I'm leaning Khabib.
1. conor's gas tank is awful. He gets worse and worse as a fight goes on.
2. conor's been out of the octagon for nearly two years. In the UFC, that's like 20 years compared to other sports.
3. conor's been doing nothing for over a year since mayweather. Aside from coke binges and getting sh#tfaced drunk.
4. what is conor's motivation? With a $100 mil payday from his mayweather fight, it doesn't matter whether he fights again, much less wins. He has no motivation.
5. Khabib conversely, like most mma fighters makes almost nothing for fighting inside the cage.
6. Khabib has fought 4 times since 2016, this will be his 5th. He's far more active than mcgregor in mma in recent years.
7. Khabib is much stronger and bigger than any opponent Mcgregor has ever faced before. Mcgregor's not fighting an anorexic, or a 5'4" featherweight. Conor will be the smaller, weaker man for sure in this fight. And his cardio will be far worse, if previous patterns hold.
If conor is going to win this fight, he's going to have to win early. He's got a puncher's chance, that's for sure. He's the more talented and skiller striker. He has good technical tdd. But he's fighting a much larger and stronger opponent than he ever has before.
If Khabib gets sloppy, he can get tagged and lose the fight. If Khabib sticks to his game plan and takes mcgregor down, mcgregor will be in a lot of trouble.
I hope it's a great fight though. If conor can remain standing past the first or even the second, it should be a lot of fun. If he can't, he's going to look like roadkill by the end of the fight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
He left early becuz he had to start weight cutting and the audience was not very friendly.Why did Khabib drop out of the pre fight press conference??
He left early becuz he had to start weight cutting and the audience was not very friendly.
McGregor is smart enough to understand that he is an entertainer first and a fighter second. That's why he was paid $100 million to fight Mayweather. UFC is essentially WWE with real fighting.I watched the Khabib v Conor McGregor press conference.
I really found McGregor to be abit of an embarrassment.. He was a loud mouth drunken coked up fool.
This man has not an hounarable bone in him.. And a bad example to the youth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.