"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Keys to the VIP (YouTube vids)

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There's several episodes of the show Keys to the VIP on YouTube.

Check them out:

http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=keys+to+vip&search=Search

Basically, it pits two 'pick up artists' against each other in a club environment and they are given PUA tasks to complete (get a number in under three minutes, for example). There's also commentary from a panel of PUA specialists.

The level of game varies, but most of them are impressive. It's nice to see that they all have the balls to approach, and it just goes to show how easy it actually is to make an approach which is a problem area for a lot of guys.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BuildingSomethingBig said:
There's several episodes of the show Keys to the VIP on YouTube.

Check them out:

http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=keys+to+vip&search=Search

Basically, it pits two 'pick up artists' against each other in a club environment and they are given PUA tasks to complete (get a number in under three minutes, for example). There's also commentary from a panel of PUA specialists.

The level of game varies, but most of them are impressive. It's nice to see that they all have the balls to approach, and it just goes to show how easy it actually is to make an approach which is a problem area for a lot of guys.
What's more impressive is that they have the guts to go on TV despite the chance of getting embarrassed like some did. One of the guys is a friend of my friend. Marc aka Romeo. He's a club promoter but I never thought I would see him on this show. He's good.
 

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Kev07 said:
theres another thread that has the direct links to the video do a search on keys to the vip

I want to watch all of the episodes, too bad only a few have been posted up
Go to google video - all the vids were there the last time i checked.
 
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