"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Keys to the VIP ...Proof that looks dont matter

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Effington

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That was a pretty cool video, actually. For the time constraints he was given he did really well, although as the commentary suggests, the reality is that the building attraction phase takes more than 90 seconds. The one black dude who was all over Cajun's nuts needs to tone it down with the praises, though.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I don't want to turn this into a looks thread, but the guy is not bad looking. His look would be considered hot by some preppy white brauds. He is not the best looking guy in the world but noone could say he is ugly. Bad example. He had good game though and that is what mattered most on his interactions.
 

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i barely come on this site, but that was some tight game there
 

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ChrizZ said:
Only one of those girls is hot. Looks dont matter? To an extent. But imagine going up to a girl you think is attractive, limited conversation, and getting what you want. What do unattractive guys do when there are good looking guys with game? Nothing.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yes they do matter. If a girl has no physical attraction to you in any way, than no "game" is going to make her sleep with you unless she wants you for your money or status.

The funny thing is as much as you guys harp on "having game" or whatever, its 10x easier to just work on improving your look.

A cool wardrobe, getting muscular and fit, acne treatment, a new hairstyle, growing a cool beard, etc. all of that is within your reach if you put in the effort.

Improve your looks, and women will make it easier for you to get them. Don't do this, and you'll be "gaming" your ass off for the rest of your life.
 

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L777 said:
Whatever. Its just you come across as arrogant because you state your opinion as a cast iron fact. What about the girls that f.uck guys solely on their personality? (Believe it or not they do exist - you just have to go to the right places - hint: not Greek Town), what about 26 year olds? What about girls that like bodybuilders regardless of their face....or even the PUAs who's game makes up for their appearance?

When you think about it, what you put doesn't really help anyone and is unrelated to the original post.

PS: If you're going to type your deep, unquestionable truths in bold, it would look better if you spelled the long words right...

Im-per-a-tive :D
Though i do make the occasional spelling error...
There is a very fine line between one's ability to differentiate between their interpretation of extreme confidence and arrogance.

Yup.. all good points you made there, and that is why its called a "discussion" you express your angle and i express mine and we all learn..

All those examples you mentioned are in the minority and happen much less often than would make it reasonable to base your tactics on those occurrences .
 

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FutureSpartan said:
Yes they do matter. If a girl has no physical attraction to you in any way, than no "game" is going to make her sleep with you unless she wants you for your money or status.

The funny thing is as much as you guys harp on "having game" or whatever, its 10x easier to just work on improving your look.

A cool wardrobe, getting muscular and fit, acne treatment, a new hairstyle, growing a cool beard, etc. all of that is within your reach if you put in the effort.

Improve your looks, and women will make it easier for you to get them. Don't do this, and you'll be "gaming" your ass off for the rest of your life.

Exactly and one of the first things young attractive women ask when someone mentions a guy to them... "IS HE CUTE?"
 

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DonGorgon said:
Exactly and one of the first things young attractive women ask when someone mentions a guy to them... "IS HE CUTE?"
Nope, according to SoSuave, girls should only ask "Does he have a charming, magnetic personality?" :rolleyes:
 

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Umm.. do you actually think those captured on camera pick ups are actually REAL?

I think it was determined that most of these so called pick up videos are FAKE.

Look at that VH1 show with Mystery. The whole show was one big fake. What makes you think this is any different?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MrLuvr said:
Umm.. do you actually think those captured on camera pick ups are actually REAL?

I think it was determined that most of these so called pick up videos are FAKE.

Look at that VH1 show with Mystery. The whole show was one big fake. What makes you think this is any different?
What makes you think that the whole show was fake ?
 

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Haha, this is a GREAT video!! Thanks for posting.
 

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wutangfinancial said:
ChrisZ- aren;t you the one who RealSupreme had to explain the importance of looks to-and that u aren;t good looking.......

dude, just deal with it. Your never gonna get hot girls. You never have, never will. Instead, youll waste your time on this site trying to delude yourself about reality. Get OVER yourself!
he's pretty tall though. Like over 180cm

probly can get any girl he wants
 

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Add 10-15lbs of body fat to either of these guys and they'd have to cancel the show. Game is definitely key, but it wont make you look any better when your shirt comes off.

Francisco d'Anconia said:
Too many guys depend on negging because they're lacking in other areas. Negging isn't necessary in a normal pickup.
If the only tool you own is a hammer, all your problems start to look like nails. Negs were the wrong tool for the job here and are only one tool of MANY that a DJ should have at his disposal.
 

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LOL, I remember when I last visited this board (before not being here for months until I came back a few days ago), the most popular topic was a (heated) discussion about whether looks matter or not and the topic got closed, if I remember correclty.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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