You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I wouldn't concern yourself by worrying about these types of DJism tv shows going mainstream because it isn't the knowledge of DJism that enable a dude to seduce HBs but the confidence ability and beleif that you yourself can successfully apply them, for this reason it isn't going to effect any of the current members within the PUA community because 95% of the AFC dudes who will watch these shows will just assume that the DJs on it are naturally gifted in this way, so they won't think its possible for them to be the same.Noob said: