"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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keys for self improvement

Alphamale1821

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I've been evaluating my life and i have some simple key elements that you aspiring Dj's could use to help you in your game.

Inner Self: You must absolutely have Confidence, you have no confidence you will get no where with women and just excersie from your hand. ****iness is a plus that can hurt or help you, If you know when to turn it up and turn it down.

The Mindset: Always Assume Attraction because all women want me.

Keys for Self improvement.
1. Always be leading in every situation, You control your own life NO ONE ELSE
2. Be totally unaffected by the words, actions or outcome of any social situation with a women.
3. Give no women the power to control your emotional state of mind.
4. Never react, always respond
5. Do everything possible to avoid any confrontation or argument with a women.
6. Master the art of reading body language and sub communication
7. Trust your intuition
8. And of couse HAVE FUN,

1. As a man we born to be leader, whenever a women is dominant then she feels like she has control and we all know what happens when women have power.
2. This is by far one of the most important i belive. For if you are unaffected by anything then you can never lose because you are only focuses on what you want.
3. This is also very important for once, the women finds out what can push your buttons she will exploit it every chance she gets.
4. If a women is straight up ***** to you, don't go down to her level we are above them. Simply use you head and respond b/c their is no need to lower your self by reacting to her.
5. We are men and we don't care for drama, women do so be a man and fuuck the drama. Remain Calm, cool and collected. Let her get worked up and you be cool.
6. Women often say one thing but thier body language can say something else. Mastering this will automatically give you the 6th sense as to what you need to next.
7. This is yor gut feeling. It's a sign that warns you of something good or bad. Do not ignore it and be left hanging to dry
8. If you have fun, this increse your value, because it conveys happiness and that you enjoy life. You are the man and you know how to bring the fun. Women love to have fun. If you get laid, if you don't it doesn't matter b/c regardless you are still having fun.

Remember: Arguing with women is like wrestling with a pig, after a while you realize they like it.

What is not acceptable from a women
1. After 2-3 calls if no response is returned, NEXT
2. If a girlfriend has a boyfriend, NEXT


Their is no need to hold on to a biitches number if she has no interest. Biitches who give you their number but have Boyfriends, should be avoided b/c chances are they are just using u for a ego boost. :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thank you. Adding that to my collection.
 

Alphamale1821

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wow another great post ignored....can't say i haven't tried to help the chumps around here:kick:
 

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Get used to it, Chuk. Many good threads put up are ignored by many, though this one didn't merit too much of a response/discussion.

Everything posted is great but what the newbies need to focus on is HAVE FUN. If you have fun and live life to the fullest, women will be attracted to you. Period. So have fun being ****y, have fun leading your life and don't let other people get you down because that ISN'T FUN.
 

Alphamale1821

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Bump the guys around here need this maybe more people will actually read it and internalize it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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If you guys really want accolades for your self promotion, come up with something which hasn't been said already. Don't expect people to pay for last year's newspaper just because it says it's today's news.
 

Alphamale1821

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As figured this place is full of chumps, trolls and few useful guy's. I want no Accolades i'm simply spitting out info that people like me know and to those who don't maybe they can learn something.

Then again I always seem to remember why i come here and say nothing. I guess i should go with my gut feeling which is telling me to not say anythign useful and laugh at these ridiculous threads.

Psh whatever Sosuave will still be a place for my entertainment when i'm not out and about. I can always come here to get a good laugh. Sad but true.

Edit: better yet this threads would be better off in tips, most guy's appreciate the help their.
 
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