"BORING" is a very subjective term that means different things to different people.
I know many chill men who do fine with women. Your job as a man is not to be a circus clown that dances around for female validation. Your job is to get laid.
So "don't be boring" is not the right advice. The right advice is "don't be a pandering kiss-ass". Also, if you ALWAYS live by your own rules regardless of the outcome with women.. you will never be seen as boring. The "boring" men are the ones who try to "fit in" and follow every rule women make out of fear of rejection.
The I'll do anything to make you like me! desperate vibe is not a good look. Always talk to women like you already have them.