Kerensky: A Simple Antidote for Oneitis

[Kerensky]

You like the girl? You think she likes you and you're waiting for her to make the move? You're wrong.

Here's what I did. I cared soooo much for my oneitis and did a lot of things for her. Hey, I was an AFC. Then one day, I asked HER for a favor and guess what happened?

Nothing happened. At least for me, I realized feelings weren't mutual and that was a hard slap that she'd sacrifice time to go shopping with girilfriends than help me out with a project like projects and other thing you've always helped them with. It shows how much you've been tooled. It makes you angry. And when a man is angry, he changes what he doesn't like, which at this point would be his own stupidity for thinking there was a spark. Now realizes there was never a spark.

Spark gone. Oneitis gone.

 

[dearsappho]

I dont get this. To banish feelings you need to do something for yourself. I dont think its helpful to allow a woman the power of forcing your hand so far as emotional investment is concerned.

I would say the best antidote for oneitis is to get out and meet other women all the time youre with her.

Prevention is better than cure, my friend.