Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Kepping up being a challenge

Arnold

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Hello,

I been with my girl for 3 months now,

we started off jsut seeing each other, she would come over on saturday mornings after my night outs and would jsut hang out roung my house. she knew i was kinda player but thought there was more to me blah blah blah.

eventually she got me, she would come n see me when i got ill and i began to really like her etc.

it's the holidays now and we've been spending soo much time together, almost every day and night this week.

Recently the sex has got kinda boring, which im gonna sort out with various stuff but i wanna keep up the challenge for her. i Mean i been spending soo much time with her, i would never have been soo easy a couple of months ago but now it jsut seems natural. When i was single it was easy for challenges, but how can i do it now? i mean i cant get with other girls, i cant ignore her calls temporarily, if i become suddenly mysterious she will think somethings is very wrong.

How can i keep the relationship exciting? jsut romantic ideas?? And another thing is i don;t wanna keep doing such things to make her think im too nice if you get me? i want her to work for me because thats what attracted her to me soo strongly in the first place (plus my exceptional good looks)

sorry for ranting on?

what you guys think?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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runnincircles

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Yeah, you really have to stay consistent with being a challenge, otherwise it's as if you can't do it anymore. All I can say is don't give up your power.
 
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