"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kepping up being a challenge

Arnold

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Hello,

I been with my girl for 3 months now,

we started off jsut seeing each other, she would come over on saturday mornings after my night outs and would jsut hang out roung my house. she knew i was kinda player but thought there was more to me blah blah blah.

eventually she got me, she would come n see me when i got ill and i began to really like her etc.

it's the holidays now and we've been spending soo much time together, almost every day and night this week.

Recently the sex has got kinda boring, which im gonna sort out with various stuff but i wanna keep up the challenge for her. i Mean i been spending soo much time with her, i would never have been soo easy a couple of months ago but now it jsut seems natural. When i was single it was easy for challenges, but how can i do it now? i mean i cant get with other girls, i cant ignore her calls temporarily, if i become suddenly mysterious she will think somethings is very wrong.

How can i keep the relationship exciting? jsut romantic ideas?? And another thing is i don;t wanna keep doing such things to make her think im too nice if you get me? i want her to work for me because thats what attracted her to me soo strongly in the first place (plus my exceptional good looks)

sorry for ranting on?

what you guys think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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runnincircles

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Yeah, you really have to stay consistent with being a challenge, otherwise it's as if you can't do it anymore. All I can say is don't give up your power.
 
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