"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Kentucky Clerk Kim Davis Ordered To Jail For Refusing Marriage Licenses To Gay Couple
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Tictac
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I've seem everything from she's a hero to a persecutor.
She's a Conscientious Objector, that's all. And she has the right to object. She is also paying the price for it as COs often do.
As an elected official, she's wrong not to uphold the law IMO. But that's another matter entirely.
She's a Conscientious Objector, that's all. And she has the right to object. She is also paying the price for it as COs often do.
As an elected official, she's wrong not to uphold the law IMO. But that's another matter entirely.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I love how whenever there is someone in the national media spotlight for their Christian beliefs, they are inevitably inbred white trash.
http://patch.com/us/across-america/5-facts-clerk-sent-jail-gay-marriage-dispute-0
Davis has been married four times to three different men and had twins out of wedlock.
It’s all a bit complicated. Here’s the breakdown:
After divorcing her first husband of 10 years, she had twins five months later; the twins were fathered by the man who would become her third husband, according to NBC News.
When she married her second husband, he adopted the twins.
Davis and her second husband divorced 10 years later.
She then married the father of her children, a union that lasted “less than a year,” according to NBC.
She remarried her second husband in 2009, and they are still together.
http://patch.com/us/across-america/5-facts-clerk-sent-jail-gay-marriage-dispute-0
Davis has been married four times to three different men and had twins out of wedlock.
It’s all a bit complicated. Here’s the breakdown:
After divorcing her first husband of 10 years, she had twins five months later; the twins were fathered by the man who would become her third husband, according to NBC News.
When she married her second husband, he adopted the twins.
Davis and her second husband divorced 10 years later.
She then married the father of her children, a union that lasted “less than a year,” according to NBC.
She remarried her second husband in 2009, and they are still together.
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She is against revolting faggotry and is being persecuted. She's a hero while most republicans are too pus sified to take a stand against perversion. Instead of her going to jail the perverts should go to jail.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
zekko
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I have mixed feelings about this. It's too bad that this lady was forced into a situation where she felt she had to make a choice about taking a stand about her beliefs.
But she has a government job and it's part of that job to go by the law of the land, which like it or not right now includes gay marriage. There will always be homosexuals, and it doesn't affect my life whether or not they get married one way or another.
But I don't really like that the LGBT community has now become the new "protected" class that no one can criticize, and everyone must celebrate.
But as Bible Belt pointed out, gay marriages are probably no more shams than the three heterosexual marriages that this lady took part in.
Honestly, if I were her, I would just separate my beliefs from the duties that my job required me to do, or else get a different job.
But she has a government job and it's part of that job to go by the law of the land, which like it or not right now includes gay marriage. There will always be homosexuals, and it doesn't affect my life whether or not they get married one way or another.
But I don't really like that the LGBT community has now become the new "protected" class that no one can criticize, and everyone must celebrate.
But as Bible Belt pointed out, gay marriages are probably no more shams than the three heterosexual marriages that this lady took part in.
Honestly, if I were her, I would just separate my beliefs from the duties that my job required me to do, or else get a different job.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
penkitten
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She should still be in jail. As an elected official, she took an oath to uphold the constitution and do her job. She says it violates her religious beliefs to marry homosexuals... but she isn't a judge and she isn't marrying anyone. Her job is to view the birth certificates and answer 2 questions on a form that ask if they are the people requesting the marriage license and if they are legally allowed to get married. Then she issues the marriage license so a judge can marry them. .... The constitution gives everyone freedom of religion and that includes freedom from religion. She can cry all day about how it's against her beliefs for others to marry but catholics and johovans witnesses can also cry that it's against their beliefs that she's been married 4 times. ... religion is like a penis... don't whip it and and rub it in other people's faces! Just do your job or resign. By refusing to do her job and discriminate against people and blame God for it , is a shameful act. It also puts the state in trouble because she is basically saying the state has adopted a specific religion... which it can not.