Keeps calling me gay

[michaelhctam]

Its really annoying whenever I am talking to a girl, and all of a sudden they ask.

ARE YOU GAY?

Why the fvck do they ask me that question?! I dont dress,act,look,smell,feel gay!

By the way these are High school chicks so that might be a factor.....

 

[Fenderules]

yes, highschool would be the factor. Either that or you show no interest in women. In any case i could care less about what they say

 

[Play the Game]

yes, highschool would be the factor. Either that or you show no interest in women. In any case i could care less about what they say

Isn't "showing no interest in women" gay? I think they're just very observant.

 

[Fenderules]

yeah i cant believe i used to be like this.

you will grow in time.

hey at least im not afraid to be a sloppy guy that is horny. I didnt really have a choice, i just started not giving a **** cause i was 2 horny to be polite.

 

[00Kevin]

Its really annoying whenever I am talking to a girl, and all of a sudden they ask.

ARE YOU GAY?

Why the fvck do they ask me that question?! I dont dress,act,look,smell,feel gay!

By the way these are High school chicks so that might be a factor.....

maybe they want it in their ass

 

[knglerxt]

Isn't "showing no interest in women" gay? I think they're just very observant.

What if a guy is quiet and reserved? He might not show the same signs of interest in women that most other guys do, but that doesn't mean he's not attracted to women. If some girl thinks you're gay, that's her problem anyway.

 

[michaelhctam]

maybe they want it in their ass

Ahem, please elaborate for me please.

So what does it basically mean guys? Is she or is she not interested in me if she asks if I am gay. Kind of a like a 'too good to be true' sort of thing.

?

 

[DJDamage]

"Are you gay"? is womense for "How come you are not chasing me and kissing my ass like all the other guys"??

Then again if you are the loner type who is afraid to show his sexuality and interest in girls that might also raise some questions.

 

[michaelhctam]

"Are you gay"? is womense for "How come you are not chasing me and kissing my ass like all the other guys"??

Then again if you are the loner type who is afraid to show his sexuality and interest in girls that might also raise some questions.

Ohh, Noo0o0o; I am not the loner type at all- I am very outgoing when in conversation and I always contribute to the conversation, and I do show my sexuality but I am abit inexperianced at that at the moment.

But if thats what she is really saying, then should I keep doing what I do and keep her guessing? Because quite frankly I dont want to be the 'other guys'.

 

[The Comeback Kid]

HB: Are you gay?
You: psh, no. (wait a second) Want me to prove it? :crackup:

this may not be the best approach, but if she does want you to "prove it," you're all set. :yes:

 

[michaelhctam]

HB: Are you gay?
You: psh, no. (wait a second) Want me to prove it? :crackup:

this may not be the best approach, but if she does want you to "prove it," you're all set. :yes:

Good Idea! I will try that next time

 

[DJDamage]

Ohh, Noo0o0o; I am not the loner type at all- I am very outgoing when in conversation and I always contribute to the conversation, and I do show my sexuality but I am abit inexperianced at that at the moment.

But if thats what she is really saying, then should I keep doing what I do and keep her guessing? Because quite frankly I dont want to be the 'other guys'.

First of all why do you even care if someone calls you gay? You know you are not gay. If you want to stir up the hornet's nest, next time this chick is calling you gay in front of everyone just tell her stright out "are you just saying this because you want to fvck me?".

 

[So pimp its scary]

Her : Are you gay?
Me : Why, do you wanna bring me back to the home team?

 

[Obsidian]

if they seriously think you're gay, they'll let their guards down and you can seduce them better. Or so I've heard.

 

[Kev07]

"maybe i'm gay, but my penis is sure straight, get down there bvtch"

 

[Kwello]

HB: Are you gay?
You: Yeah... but I'll let you be the chick that brings me back to the straight team.

Slightly different version of Spis' line.

 

[~attrACTION~]

Listen up, do this.

This works because I've done it plenty of times, with success.

If she asks it's usually because you're being asexual beta male and not making moves when she's making herself available to you. I get it on occasion because I don't have a girlfriend and girls wonder why. (but the following advice is based on past experience, back when I was seeing almost a different chick every week).

Anyway, when she asks you, look her straight in the eyes. Make sure you are standing close to her, face-to-face. Slightly lift her chin and kiss her on the lips. No tongue or very little, just a sensual smooch, and then work it for a few seconds. Nine times out of ten she will like it. Then you look at her straight in the eyes and say "do I kiss like a gay guy?" She's going to laugh, and that's when you start making out.

I've done this at least seven times in the past. Try it. I honestly bet you she wants you, and the "are you gay" question is because you are not making moves like you should be. So you surprise her with a kiss like this.

And hey, if you don't get a chance to kiss her right then, you can pull her aside later. Be like, "you know the other time when you asked me if I was gay...well..." and then you kiss her. It's spontaneous, chicks dig it.

 

[~attrACTION~]

By the way, read Gunwitch method. It will teach you to be a lot more sexual and show your desires when around women. I recommend it.

 

[The Sperminator]

Well he said they ask him this while they are talking so maybe it has to do with how you talk or hand gestures and so on. I don't know you personally so I don't know how you are but I know this one guy who is often asked if he is gay bc he talks like he is gay and often does a lot of hand gestures but hes not gay at all. Maybe its your mannerisms.

 

[Ripper]

I've had this question and am 2 for 2 with these responses:

Response 1) Yes, I'm rampantly homosexual. I stuff it, I take it, you name it I've done it...*straight face* then burst out into laughter *cue much laughter from her*.

Response 2) Isn't it obvious? Must be the killer looks and great dress sense...we are a rare breed... *cue laughter*