M Musashi
Don Juan
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- Aug 3, 2018
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Hi everyone,
I've been seeing a plate for almost 4 months now, she may have LTR potential in the near future - stuff like going out of her way to buy and cook great meals for me. I banged her the day after her 3 year relationship finished and have banged her most weekends in the past 4 months.
In the beginning she seemed to be pushing for exclusivity quite quickly, but I compromised frame a few times with things such as: staying the night too many times post sex and eye gazing. I f'ed up bad one time when she said "thanks for having lunch with me" to which I responded, "It's fine, I like spending time with you", there have been a couple instances like that. After a few of those instances she noticeably hinted less towards LTR. But since I've regained frame (to some extent) she's ramped up the random nood shots and has been saying things like "I got more than I bargained for with you" and "if you meet my friends(who live on other side of the planet) a fair few times. She's actually also ramped up the fitness tests too.
Now I'm at the point where she's sending me YT videos on vulnerability and saying we need to talk about stuff. I get that vulnerability can be done (No More Mr. Nice Guy book) without being a total weenie simp about it. BUT that's something I reserve only for an LTR, if she asked for commitment I would likely say yes.
So, my question. When she brings up all this vulnerability stuff, what do - do I just tell her straight up something to the ring of "That's not something for girls I'm casual with", what approach would you take? I think a problem here is I may be wanting the LTR to happen more than I realize and I'm almost trying to find ways to get her to ask.
Cheers
I've been seeing a plate for almost 4 months now, she may have LTR potential in the near future - stuff like going out of her way to buy and cook great meals for me. I banged her the day after her 3 year relationship finished and have banged her most weekends in the past 4 months.
In the beginning she seemed to be pushing for exclusivity quite quickly, but I compromised frame a few times with things such as: staying the night too many times post sex and eye gazing. I f'ed up bad one time when she said "thanks for having lunch with me" to which I responded, "It's fine, I like spending time with you", there have been a couple instances like that. After a few of those instances she noticeably hinted less towards LTR. But since I've regained frame (to some extent) she's ramped up the random nood shots and has been saying things like "I got more than I bargained for with you" and "if you meet my friends(who live on other side of the planet) a fair few times. She's actually also ramped up the fitness tests too.
Now I'm at the point where she's sending me YT videos on vulnerability and saying we need to talk about stuff. I get that vulnerability can be done (No More Mr. Nice Guy book) without being a total weenie simp about it. BUT that's something I reserve only for an LTR, if she asked for commitment I would likely say yes.
So, my question. When she brings up all this vulnerability stuff, what do - do I just tell her straight up something to the ring of "That's not something for girls I'm casual with", what approach would you take? I think a problem here is I may be wanting the LTR to happen more than I realize and I'm almost trying to find ways to get her to ask.
Cheers