"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Keeping your game tight in a relationship

Captain

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Remember, you can be in a relationship and still date other women, although I think you were referring to "relationships" as exclusive relationships.

The most important thing to have in a relationship is the willingness to walk away and end it at a moment's notice.

-You are number 1 in the relationship. Your career and interests is number 2. She is number 3. A woman is to enhance your life, not give it meaning.

-Most importantly, keep doing what works. Don't change what you've been doing. You need to keep doing what attracted her in the first place.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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andy1989

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Captain said:
Remember, you can be in a relationship and still date other women, although I think you were referring to "relationships" as exclusive relationships.

The most important thing to have in a relationship is the willingness to walk away and end it at a moment's notice.

-You are number 1 in the relationship. Your career and interests is number 2. She is number 3. A woman is to enhance your life, not give it meaning.

-Most importantly, keep doing what works. Don't change what you've been doing. You need to keep doing what attracted her in the first place.
This man speaks truth.
 

Allurre

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This isn't what I'm asking about, I'm talking about the practical things you do while in the relationship to keep the whole "pua" side in practice. We all know what to do to keep the relationship from becoming a black hole, I'm talking about the 'game' stuff you can do with your spare time (since you aren't 24/7 glued to her!)

Firstly, I don't advocate getting with other chicks if you're in an exclusive relationship. But if you want to keep your PUA skills up to par on your FREE time -- which I would rather invest in my career -- then why don't you just meet women online, schedule for dates, and exercise your game?
 
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