"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Keeping your game tight in a relationship

Captain

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Remember, you can be in a relationship and still date other women, although I think you were referring to "relationships" as exclusive relationships.

The most important thing to have in a relationship is the willingness to walk away and end it at a moment's notice.

-You are number 1 in the relationship. Your career and interests is number 2. She is number 3. A woman is to enhance your life, not give it meaning.

-Most importantly, keep doing what works. Don't change what you've been doing. You need to keep doing what attracted her in the first place.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

andy1989

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Captain said:
Remember, you can be in a relationship and still date other women, although I think you were referring to "relationships" as exclusive relationships.

The most important thing to have in a relationship is the willingness to walk away and end it at a moment's notice.

-You are number 1 in the relationship. Your career and interests is number 2. She is number 3. A woman is to enhance your life, not give it meaning.

-Most importantly, keep doing what works. Don't change what you've been doing. You need to keep doing what attracted her in the first place.
This man speaks truth.
 

Allurre

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This isn't what I'm asking about, I'm talking about the practical things you do while in the relationship to keep the whole "pua" side in practice. We all know what to do to keep the relationship from becoming a black hole, I'm talking about the 'game' stuff you can do with your spare time (since you aren't 24/7 glued to her!)

Firstly, I don't advocate getting with other chicks if you're in an exclusive relationship. But if you want to keep your PUA skills up to par on your FREE time -- which I would rather invest in my career -- then why don't you just meet women online, schedule for dates, and exercise your game?
 
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