I've started to notice a trend. I meet a girl, we go out, have a great time, hook up. It's all fun. However, with my extremely limited amount of free time, it's hard to keep that momentum going from date to date. Eventually it fizzles out and I'm on to the next. I've tried telling girls how busy and hectic my schedule is, I feel like they eventually get frustrated or lose interest. Any tips on this issue? I've literally had girls trembling in my bed, unable to move from an intense orgasm, and that's the last I see of them.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Keeping the momentum going
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Hmm so I'm guessing they feel you desire them for good times and sechs only? And you are wondering why they don't come back after a ride to outer space and back on your super cahk rocket?
Me thinks you need to learn more about women and pick ones that are less relationship oriented! They are likely feeling like they are being used. Every now and then its good for the business owner to reward his good customers if he values the relationship & wants repeat business. Invest in their emotional bank account!