"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Keeping the momemtum with new plates while out of town?

spiegel549

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Whats up my bros?

Wanted to get some feedback on this please.

I have a few really fresh Tinder plates that want to get together. Just got a few new numbers that are ready to be set up for dates. The only problem is I had to fly across the country last minute to handle some family/work stuff.

I am going to be out of town about 2 weeks. My usual game play is once I get a number I set up a date within a day or two.

How do you guys from experience keep in touch/maintain your new plates and keep them excited for that first date when your out of town?

I would hate to let a few of these new plates go idle, but I also would hate to fall into that, "hey just touching base to say hi!" sh!t.

Plates I have already smashed I just say "out of town, lets get together when I am back." easy. It is the new ones that could very easily lose interest if I don't strike while the irons hot.


What do you guys think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jurry

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Dont think theres much you can do. Say hey ill be back in couple weeks, hope for the best. What other option do you have? Keeping in touch while youre gone without seeming beta is difficult/risky, altho its probably doable depending on your established rapport.

Look for someone else where you re flying to, stay in the now! ;)
 
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