Keeping the attraction in a relationship

[SteR]

Personally I've never been in a long term relationship myself (the longest was like a week) but I do wonder, how does a person keep their girl in check when in a relationship?

I often wonder how I'd cope if I settled down with someone and other guys start hitting on her etc. How do you make sure she stays interested in you and doesn't start looking elsewhere?

 

[slaog]

Its not about doing things to keep them happy, its about being an attractive person. Thats why its important to work on yourself, improve yourself and you'll attract women effortlessly.


So put in the hard effort in making yourself a better person. Don't be working too hard in trying to make somebody like you.

 

[Tiguere]

The OP is asking on how he can become an AFC in a relationship.

Sorry go to enotalone or loveshack.

The women is the one who have to worry about staying attractive to her man. There is a whole industry (cosmetics) that supports my view.

 

[PrettyBoyA]

you keep your girl in check by playing power game

basically the power belongs to the one who cares less in the relationship

the other person (who has less power) will have higher interest in the one who cares less

it's alot more complicated than this, but in a nutshell: show that you're always willing to walk away and a girl will forever fight to stay with you