"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dmatter

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hey guys I have a question. me and my girl have been going out a while and things are good. just recently shes came to my house to hang out. she isnt really experienced sexually and im not that much better but with the advice on this website i have been able to pul it off in the past that i know what im doing. anyways we started to make out heavily and i got her shirt and bra off. i started to kiss her all over working my way down to between her legs while i was kissing her *****. she loved it. the next day she started talking really dirty and being sexual and the phone. saying its because of me and shes neverfelt like that before in her life and cant stop thinking about it. i told her i cant help it she taste so good i wanted to eat her and then she said she wanted to too but was scared. i reassured her saying i wouldnt hurt her or rush her.

now i just want to know how do i follow up on this? will she have it in the back of her head until next time we see eachother? or is there something i can do to keep her sexual interest in me until i get her alone again? or act normal and then get her excited again next time were alone? idk so many decisions i just wante her to keep that new found sexual interest.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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emelec

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just be normal man get her worked up when she comes over again.
 

Visions007

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Her sexual interest is high now you dont need to constantly do anything... just keep showing her you want her. To keep her interested give her different experiences sexually. The worst thing you can do is fall into a "routine" sexually and do it the same every time. Try one time having sex in the shower together, next time massage her whole body and go down then nail her, the next time just rip her clothes off as soon as she walks in the door. Be in control and find out what she likes and dislikes by trying different stuff it will keep her interest high and she will talk about how sexual the two of you are to her firends.
 

Ixnys

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Easy. Invite her over. You both know what's gonna happen. When you first see one another you might be a little nervous even though you're...not. Make some mixed drinks to loosen **** up a tad and everything will progress very very easily in a good natural way :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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