Keeping interest in a conversation.

[Viper]

So, there's this girl in band her name's Jacquie(Pronounced Jackie), she's blonde, got beautiful eyes, great body and I'm planning to get her number next week during band rehearsal. Other than a few small things, I know nothing about this girl, so there will be alot of room for conversation. But, I've learned that long conversations don't necessarily equal wet panties and the chick eventually leaves. Yeah, the conversations are boring, not only for the chick, but for me too. So if you guys have any tips on raising the interest level in a conversation, it would help me A LOT.
Also, do you guys think that this would work for a number close?

Me: Hey, Jacquie, how's it going?
Jacquie: Um.. good.
Me: Really, what have you been up to for the past week?
Jacquie: Well... this and that.
Me: This and that?
Jacquie: (Talks about what she did.)
[Conversation goes on]
Me: Well, I've had a nice time talking to you and I was wondering if you could give me your number.
Jacquie: Sure.

 

[Smooth Player 056]

Originally posted by Viper
So, there's this girl in band her name's Jacquie(Pronounced Jackie), she's blonde, got beautiful eyes, great body and I'm planning to get her number next week during band rehearsal. Other than a few small things, I know nothing about this girl, so there will be alot of room for conversation. But, I've learned that long conversations don't necessarily equal wet panties and the chick eventually leaves. Yeah, the conversations are boring, not only for the chick, but for me too. So if you guys have any tips on raising the interest level in a conversation, it would help me A LOT.
Also, do you guys think that this would work for a number close?

Give a purpose for getting her number. Such as: why dont you give me your phone number and when Im not busy, ill call you and we can finish this GREAT conversation.



- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique

 

[08aisaac]

Rehearsing conversations really isn't the way to go. Ever think about how there are kids that spend hours cramming before a test, and they might or might not pass, but they definitely didn't learn anything. Well the same with conversations.

It has to be natural, or you will fall right on your A$$.

Well so you say you don't have anything to talk about? Well start doing interesting stuff. Like I walk the streets. And basically I could talk tons about all the things I see, and generally, it gives me some experiences that no one has ever had, so I can talk about that.

I also build computers, but I don't really talk about that, because it is boring to people that don't know anything about it.

Basically you have to start doing stuff that is really interesting, that no one else does, but that will make some good conversation.

I was planning to get this number of a chick, and all her frineds that I was going to eat lunch with on Friday, and maybe plan my weekend around doing soemthing with them, but I didn't even eat lunch with them, don't ask.

So my whole weekend was a waste, because I was planning to far in the future.

What if she misses the whole week of school, and band practice?

What if you **** up what you rehearsed?

Well the solution is to not rehearse before hand, but rather, just act natural, and if you have to cut the convo short, do.

Become an interesting person, and peopel will automatically enjoy talking to you.

In other, more harsh, words, Get a life.

You will be much better off.

 

[Smooth Player 056]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^ although many people here will say to not rehearse. I agree and disagree on some level. You should NOT reharse a convo line for line, becuase you never know what tangent she will go off on or what will happen in your surroundings. You should plan out a basic structure for the convo and maybe have a favorite number close line or gimmick ready. Please do not disagree if you havent tried. Im sick of people on here disagreeing with things they have never even done.



- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique

 

[08aisaac]

Whatever you say. But I assure you, there is more to life, then seducing females.