"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Keeping integrity and reputation while pursuing multiple women in your "womanizer" stages of life

jhonny9546

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Hey guys, what do you think of the phase in which you are single, and obviously open to all failures, possible rejections, and that therefore you will write, or talk to almost all women, and that these could therefore be in your city or small town where you live, how do you maintain a "profile of integrity", and therefore not come off as a "*****monger", but maintain a profile of a "man of high value" by writing and keeping in touch, trying, with many women?
I mean, we embrace failure, but rumors fly... people in social circles will spread the voice... (You know how women will actually talk to all their female friends about it).

It's not a good idea to do an analysis for each woman, but the question is for all those who have values, and who would not screw a woman who is already engaged or with children, married etc, but who, however, not knowing it, must first contact her or have an interaction with her, how do you do it?
How are you seen in your city and small town?

ps: you would contact 10 women a day on social media, or just interact with as many woman as possible and show your sexual intentions.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Duke

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I wouldn't give two fuhks what people thought. I was the wh0re monger of my neighorhood. The married guys loved seeing different women in and out of my place and they all lived vicariously through me. They would laugh when they saw some strange car in my driveway and wondered what she would look like. Some of their wives hated me for it, some secretly were impressed.

Stop worrying what others think of you and go live life on your own terms.

This post is very similar to your post about being authentic and external/internal validation.
 

SmoothHendrixPS2

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In this game, bad publicity is good publicity, and the rich get richer. P***y begets P***y. You have to own it.
Your reputation precedes precedes you, and It should only enhances your self image as suave/playboy. This is where all of the magical indifference, abundance, mindset shifts happen. This is why theory and reading simply is never enough. Taking action, risks, and experiences is what builds you.

Indian dude at the gas station near my place asked me "no girl tonight? i look forward to seeing all the diff types coming in here." My own Mother knows I'm a bad boy. No shame in my game. All my friends gf's gossip about me and are entertained by different girls I bring out...

There is no such thing as a nice guy womanizer. You aren't fully unplugged from the matrix yet. You have to kill that beta male inside of you that cares about your reputation.

The same femcentric ideal that has programmed you to be cautious about your reputation is the same brainwashing that is holding you back from more success with females. They can't stand a man they can't control! You should WANT people to see yourself with different women. That's the reward for breaking through. This is how you develop aura... by actually being him, and seeing how outsiders are just pawns wishing they could do what you do.

FYI: I wouldn't spam message hundreds of girls on social media (they're leeches sucking up attention from whoever).. do online dating and approach women.
 

BaronOfHair

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Detonated my "reputation" during the first couple days of junior high, and the rest of the planet learned to expect NOTHING from me. I've been free ever since
 
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