"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Keeping in contact between dates...

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kingsam

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meh
guys what ever works for you
we all have our own methods

for the record in not totally pro NC and against txts

i also ASSUME ATTRACTION (and dont fret about IL) and decide in fu.cking cool if they dont agree oh well they'll be more along soon
(maybe its easier coz im younger ;) im not desperate for a special someone to get old with !)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I like to stay in the girls mind a bit by sending random texts or calling sometimes when Im bored. That way they get a chance to talk with you, its a free opportunity that you are giving them to get to know you better. Girls should appreciate that.
 
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