"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Keeping in contact between dates...

kingsam

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meh
guys what ever works for you
we all have our own methods

for the record in not totally pro NC and against txts

i also ASSUME ATTRACTION (and dont fret about IL) and decide in fu.cking cool if they dont agree oh well they'll be more along soon
(maybe its easier coz im younger ;) im not desperate for a special someone to get old with !)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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3countriesPlan

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I like to stay in the girls mind a bit by sending random texts or calling sometimes when Im bored. That way they get a chance to talk with you, its a free opportunity that you are giving them to get to know you better. Girls should appreciate that.
 
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