"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Keeping in contact between dates...

kingsam

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meh
guys what ever works for you
we all have our own methods

for the record in not totally pro NC and against txts

i also ASSUME ATTRACTION (and dont fret about IL) and decide in fu.cking cool if they dont agree oh well they'll be more along soon
(maybe its easier coz im younger ;) im not desperate for a special someone to get old with !)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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3countriesPlan

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I like to stay in the girls mind a bit by sending random texts or calling sometimes when Im bored. That way they get a chance to talk with you, its a free opportunity that you are giving them to get to know you better. Girls should appreciate that.
 
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