"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Keeping Friends With Benefits

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I am fairly new to the friends with benefits concept. I've checked over the DJ Bible tips, and I have not found much on what to do once you have started becoming friends with benefits. Including, what to do about jealousy going either way.
I was wondering if there were any tips out there to maintain a healthy friends with benefits relationship?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What kind of tips like be a little more specific? Making it last longer, how to not be jealous, how to not let her be more than a friend etc?
 
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How to keep it just friends. I feel like we're on the same wavelength as to where our relationship is at, but I don't want to slip up and get one-itis because we need to stay friends with benefits.
 
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