"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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keepin a secret?

franchise21

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ok have you ever had a girl that really turned you on but you were afriad to admit it because, in my case, she annoys people and nobody really likes her...they would make fun of me for ages if i even showed interest in that chick...but idk she turns me on...shes pretty good looking and has a nice bod...but still...can you just bang it and leave and hope she can keep a secret? or what do you do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KontrollerX

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Go after what you want.

Fvck what other people think.

You bow down to peer pressure you go to bed with only your hand to keep you company.

You go after what you want instead of going to bed alone it may just be with a naked chick.

The right choice is simple as far as I'm concerned.
 

franchise21

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but its not even like i'd like her as a gf...I have another girl that i think likes me and shes pretty much perfect...but this girl just turns me on...plain and simple and i don't know what to do...do you bang it, or just wait for something better to come along...and if you want to bang her...how do you get her to?
 

franchise21

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well i still want to keep my options open wiht the other chick....and a bad stain on my rep woudl pretty much ruin it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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