jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
The saying "don't put all your eggs in one basket" is particularly relevant in LTRs.
Many men start strong and "masculine" in their relationships but can become more "feminine" over time, allowing their partner to take the lead. This shift can occur after they assess their woman "**** tests" bit by bit. Unfortunately, this change can lead to a loss of attraction, prompting the woman to seek a new partner who embodies more masculine traits.
As many others have said in this forum, one strategy to maintain balance is to have options, such as FWB or engaging with professional escorts. While this may seem controversial, it can help men feel more confident in their relationships by satisfying their needs outside of their primary partnership. This approach can also empower men to stand firm against disrespectful behavior from their partners. In fact, having these options can give you more power when facing your partner's "**** tests," allowing you to respond with a masculine attitude, fueled by a IDGAF mindset.
However, you may think this is a bad idea because it is a unilateral decision. Ideally, both partners should communicate openly about their desires. Yet, since a relationship often requires one person to take the lead, men must maintain their masculine identity and sense of power. In today's world, where women have many opportunities for validation and infidelity, men need to be knowledgeable about maintaining their position as "Mature Men." Having options and satisfying your needs elsewhere can be a way to achieve this. Not only will this change you as a person, but it will also show your partner that you can leave at any time, demonstrating a sense of abundance in your behavior. This, in turn, can increase your value in her eyes.
Is this cheating? Call like it.. Yes, for sure. However, in the modern world, this could be one of the strategies that a "weak" man employs to keep his masculine traits intact.
A boat has only one captan, and that should be you, or your woman.
Additional Thoughts
For those who have engaged, or do regular sex with escorts or professionals, do you think these experiences, which often involve great "experimental" sex, could enhance your sexual relationship with your partner, because they can provide you with knowledge about sex, allowing you to experiment more with your wife?
Many men start strong and "masculine" in their relationships but can become more "feminine" over time, allowing their partner to take the lead. This shift can occur after they assess their woman "**** tests" bit by bit. Unfortunately, this change can lead to a loss of attraction, prompting the woman to seek a new partner who embodies more masculine traits.
As many others have said in this forum, one strategy to maintain balance is to have options, such as FWB or engaging with professional escorts. While this may seem controversial, it can help men feel more confident in their relationships by satisfying their needs outside of their primary partnership. This approach can also empower men to stand firm against disrespectful behavior from their partners. In fact, having these options can give you more power when facing your partner's "**** tests," allowing you to respond with a masculine attitude, fueled by a IDGAF mindset.
However, you may think this is a bad idea because it is a unilateral decision. Ideally, both partners should communicate openly about their desires. Yet, since a relationship often requires one person to take the lead, men must maintain their masculine identity and sense of power. In today's world, where women have many opportunities for validation and infidelity, men need to be knowledgeable about maintaining their position as "Mature Men." Having options and satisfying your needs elsewhere can be a way to achieve this. Not only will this change you as a person, but it will also show your partner that you can leave at any time, demonstrating a sense of abundance in your behavior. This, in turn, can increase your value in her eyes.
Is this cheating? Call like it.. Yes, for sure. However, in the modern world, this could be one of the strategies that a "weak" man employs to keep his masculine traits intact.
A boat has only one captan, and that should be you, or your woman.
Additional Thoughts
For those who have engaged, or do regular sex with escorts or professionals, do you think these experiences, which often involve great "experimental" sex, could enhance your sexual relationship with your partner, because they can provide you with knowledge about sex, allowing you to experiment more with your wife?