Duracell_Bunny
Senior Don Juan
Its been a year that we've been together.
Her interest is at the point where she is trying to get on the subject of moving in together (Im staying commited to living alone until I'm in my 30s). Not long come back from a holiday together - to my suprise there were no arguments, just minor conflicts and a couple of times she got insecure and emotional.
She hasn't done anything wrong at all, she is a great person and runs round after me a little too much, contacting me more than I'd like. Freinds and family are always telling me she's a nice chick and I'm lucky to have her.
For me, I don't know. For a few weeks I've been thinking back and fourth feeling unsure, especaily around the pool on our holiday I just couldn't help staring at all the other women thinking they are way better looking in better shape and why do they have what appears to be AFC boyfreinds - basically I was constantly pondering am I due for an upgrade?
I just feel unhappy to to fact that while shes not a whale or chubby, she is just not athletic and has very fair and pail skin, and looks a little older than her actual age. I'd much prefer a chick whos slimmer with better skin tone.
She works as a nurse with varied shifts that makes our schedules a little difficult at times, while I don't want to see her every single day this means sometime we can go a whole week without seeing each other, or in the times we do its only for like just a 2-3 hours in the evening if I'm at the gym.
Those two points make me feel unhappy. Generally towards her Im not quite feeling the chemistry.
The thought of ending things with her makes me cringe, not to the fact of me being alone, its how quilty I would be makes me feel a little sick.
The though of dating other women is kind of exciting. I'm at a far bigger advantage than when we got into a relationship. My body is in the best condition it has ever been in (check out my transformation post in the health and fitness thread), I've learnt how to become more stress free. Learnt through experience the effects of a poor quality women and how not to become weak and clingy. Not that I'd like women to be attracted to this but I've excelled in my carrier and now have a very nice sports car and decent home.
Becoming a player with lots of plates is not really my goal, Im at an age where I do want someone long term but to do lots of things with such as visiting new places and trying new things etc. The thought of settling with someone for marrige and kids is definetly NOT what I want.
Another last issue with my current girl is what it seems to me, she's stringing my freind along as something to fall back on. It without question that they would start dating if me split, that would be very hard for me as he's someone I keep in touch with a lot.
I just don't know, shes shown all the trates of a good quality woman and high IL, but Im just not feeling much physical attraction towards her, hell knows maybe I've got no emotional attraction either
Her interest is at the point where she is trying to get on the subject of moving in together (Im staying commited to living alone until I'm in my 30s). Not long come back from a holiday together - to my suprise there were no arguments, just minor conflicts and a couple of times she got insecure and emotional.
She hasn't done anything wrong at all, she is a great person and runs round after me a little too much, contacting me more than I'd like. Freinds and family are always telling me she's a nice chick and I'm lucky to have her.
For me, I don't know. For a few weeks I've been thinking back and fourth feeling unsure, especaily around the pool on our holiday I just couldn't help staring at all the other women thinking they are way better looking in better shape and why do they have what appears to be AFC boyfreinds - basically I was constantly pondering am I due for an upgrade?
I just feel unhappy to to fact that while shes not a whale or chubby, she is just not athletic and has very fair and pail skin, and looks a little older than her actual age. I'd much prefer a chick whos slimmer with better skin tone.
She works as a nurse with varied shifts that makes our schedules a little difficult at times, while I don't want to see her every single day this means sometime we can go a whole week without seeing each other, or in the times we do its only for like just a 2-3 hours in the evening if I'm at the gym.
Those two points make me feel unhappy. Generally towards her Im not quite feeling the chemistry.
The thought of ending things with her makes me cringe, not to the fact of me being alone, its how quilty I would be makes me feel a little sick.
The though of dating other women is kind of exciting. I'm at a far bigger advantage than when we got into a relationship. My body is in the best condition it has ever been in (check out my transformation post in the health and fitness thread), I've learnt how to become more stress free. Learnt through experience the effects of a poor quality women and how not to become weak and clingy. Not that I'd like women to be attracted to this but I've excelled in my carrier and now have a very nice sports car and decent home.
Becoming a player with lots of plates is not really my goal, Im at an age where I do want someone long term but to do lots of things with such as visiting new places and trying new things etc. The thought of settling with someone for marrige and kids is definetly NOT what I want.
Another last issue with my current girl is what it seems to me, she's stringing my freind along as something to fall back on. It without question that they would start dating if me split, that would be very hard for me as he's someone I keep in touch with a lot.
I just don't know, shes shown all the trates of a good quality woman and high IL, but Im just not feeling much physical attraction towards her, hell knows maybe I've got no emotional attraction either
