"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Guys, this is what I've come to learn about women, especially since my early to mid 30s and a whole lotta fvcking. You must maintain an illusion that you have another woman to a woman, even if you don't always. I mean, the Illusion that you even have a f-in Wife at home that you are sneaking around on. THIS will allow you to tap the pvssy always. She may find out eventually that your illusion is bogus, but you've already tapped it, so who cares? now. I know it's sick, but women ARE sick. I mean, I've had women who suspected me of not having another women, or not being married, still go on believing that I was legit in order to enjoy ourselves To The Max during sex. She made herself believe in spite of her doubts, because I had no proof (of a wife at home) just "hints" or the behavior that I might have one that I'm sneaking around on. Serious as a heart attack. Keep the illusion going and girls will fvck your illusion AND you. You become a god to them, when the fusion of your illusion and your fvcking her subsides. It doesn't matter to her if your illusion is true or not. It's what she wants. 80-90% of women WANT to believe a lie or a "movie" or a fairytale. When they've gotten older and had kids and sh!t, then they are less apt to be sucked in to your illusion or to want to believe in your illusion despite the doubts.

I'm currently fvcking a young 24 yr old mom (still just a teen mentally in my opinion) on a regular basis. I've been keeping the illusion going for 1.5 months. I've told her as little as possible about myself. She still doesn't know where I work. I've intentionally sabotaged my illusion which has altered her perception of me, but she still goes on worshiping me because we've had excellent multi-orgasmic sex so many times, that she doesn't care anymore if my illusion has holes or not. She just enjoys me fvcking her every week. She came all over me last weekend, more than ever, and I can do or say no wrong now. I can insult her friends, not call her, not return texts, and all other manner of bad selfish behavior, and she still goes on trusting me fully because I've been in her so many times. There's no longer that ? of trust.

I know it's sick and a bit psychopathic, but it is what it is. And she's not the only one. I fvcked another one about 3 weeks ago whom I'd detected her doubts in my illusion via minor sh!t tests of disbelief about my whereabouts and where I was going and why I wasn't going out that night blah blah (I just answered that I had to get up real early in the morning and some other funny Arrogant sh!t I'd said to her that probably made her say, "This guy just does not give a sh!t"), but she Wanted to believe in my illusion and because of her not having enough evidence or the time or the drive to gather enough evidence (half-as5ed tests) to disbelieve, the sex was magnificent because she disregarded her doubts and believed fully that I was this otherworldly badas5 (possibly married or "taken") which I am not all the time 24/7, at least I don't think I am. I'm arrogant, yes. I'm less loving, yes. I'm aggressive. I'm organized. I just want to get my fvck off, yes. I'm less well-read. I'm less pure. I'm less all these qualities a nice guy would possess: giving, into exercise, more kinky, a nerd, scientific, whatever.

Keep the illusion going. Women want to believe in it. That's all you've gotta to do for unlimited pvssy. It's psychopathic, but if you want to get laid, not "Wowing" them isn't gonna do it. I'm not talking about long-term relationships with prude women. I'm talking about women who like sex and pleasure more than anything else, women who do not necessarily care about kids etc etc. Just the ones that wanna fvck and be cool.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I know what you're saying here, I don't think I've heard it being called 'illusion' but its all the same thing ain't it.

The illusion is just talking to their emotions and creating tension. It's wierd how girlies think. :p

The thing that always makes me laugh is the girl tryna justify herself after this. Hahahaha, some of the stuff they say man, dynamite!
 

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If the sex is that good then maybe it's carried on in spite of the illusion rather than because of the illusion. Or if you're going for girls who are in it for the sex then maybe they don't care. If I was seeing a guy and I suspected him seeing another woman then it would put me off him if I liked him enough to want to be exclusive with him.
 

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CuriousGirl said:
If the sex is that good then maybe it's carried on in spite of the illusion rather than because of the illusion. Or if you're going for girls who are in it for the sex then maybe they don't care. If I was seeing a guy and I suspected him seeing another woman then it would put me off him if I liked him enough to want to be exclusive with him.
Who cares what you think. As a woman, you are not consciously aware of what your attraction triggers are. You may think you would react one way in a hypothetical situation, and act completely different in a real situation when emotions take over. It's arrogant of you to come on here and act like your perspective is somehow relevant to those who actually have to WORK for things (men).
 

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omkara said:
Who cares what you think. As a woman, you are not consciously aware of what your attraction triggers are. You may think you would react one way in a hypothetical situation, and act completely different in a real situation when emotions take over. It's arrogant of you to come on here and act like your perspective is somehow relevant to those who actually have to WORK for things (men).
I'm being arrogant?! It's arrogant opf you to assume you know all this about me on the basis of my gender. My perspective is based on my experience so far and is of some worth if it conflicts with his theory. The Op was being arrogant in suggesting his theory was absolute.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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CuriousGirl said:
I'm being arrogant?! It's arrogant opf you to assume you know all this about me on the basis of my gender. My perspective is based on my experience so far and is of some worth if it conflicts with his theory. The Op was being arrogant in suggesting his theory was absolute.
Well did he ever mention exclusivity? He even admits his game in this aspect is pretending he is married which shows he has value because he has a wife and then also shows he has a sex drive that isn't fulfilled because he is out running game on the women in the bars. This gets him what he wants which is sex.

You are the one that brought your own perspective that is 180 degrees, or close to it at least, from what the OP is stating. That sounds arrogant to me in the minimum. His theory is a practice that is run by many men and is absolute in how it is suppose to function. He runs a game where he is a dissatisfied married man picking up chicks that want to be the other woman. Every time I have run this game it works so it would be absolute in my mind as well. This might not be your game but you are not a man so you don't get how it works just like how none of us will ever get how your game works since you don't have a penis.
 

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Zodiac said:
Well did he ever mention exclusivity? He even admits his game in this aspect is pretending he is married which shows he has value because he has a wife and then also shows he has a sex drive that isn't fulfilled because he is out running game on the women in the bars. This gets him what he wants which is sex.

You are the one that brought your own perspective that is 180 degrees, or close to it at least, from what the OP is stating. That sounds arrogant to me in the minimum. His theory is a practice that is run by many men and is absolute in how it is suppose to function. He runs a game where he is a dissatisfied married man picking up chicks that want to be the other woman. Every time I have run this game it works so it would be absolute in my mind as well. This might not be your game but you are not a man so you don't get how it works just like how none of us will ever get how your game works since you don't have a penis.
"Women want to believe in it" sounded pretty arrogant and exclusive to me. and it giving access to "unlimited *****"
Anyway, my problem was that he was making it out to be the be all and end all when it really isn't, he's having casual sex with a woman he doesn't respect. He equally loses all value and respect by sleeping with her. She loses respect for him for not staying faithful, even if she really wants to screw him, also if it carries on she'll resent herself for seeing someone she's 2nd best with, no matter what he says he's with his wife still in her mind, and wife is no.1. Any self respecting woman would either not sleep with him in the first place or after she's got her one night of sex, leave it. If he wants casual sex with a (probably) insecure woman it may well work and with sex being the only goal then that's why you may feel it absolute.....but if sex is the only goal why not see a prostitute? And I don't say that in a snide way but in a pragmatic-no-emotional-damage way, it's just some of the users on here come across as a little sadistic when it comes to messing around with women, they make out they're only after sex when it's surely not just about that, there's clear personal issues with the gender as a whole.
I digress, back to my point, which I admit is usually lost in my babble, he's making out that this is so great when he shows a lack of respect for these women this routine is working on, and some may argue fairly so, yet why is he so happy he's having sex with women he doesn't respect when he could push himself and find a woman he does respect, I imagine it to be far more enjoyable sleeping with the latter. And I don't see how he's not dissatisfied.
I say this with a hint of salt, I know sex is awesome and when you're so horny there comes a point where you think **** it I really wanna **** and your body is saying SEX RIGHT NOW. But I stop and think do I actually want sex with this person or is it just sex I want. If it's the latter I don't sleep with them, otherwise I'd lose respect for myself, and that's when I personally regret things. Particularly if I was sleeping with someone I had no respect for, it does to some extent show a lack of respect for yourself.
 

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This is interesting to me... A couple of questions though.

1. When you first meet these women, what do you tell them when they ask about your relationship status?

2. Can you go into more details on how you portray that you have a significant other your hiding?
 

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Kupid Diggs said:
This is interesting to me... A couple of questions though.

1. When you first meet these women, what do you tell them when they ask about your relationship status?

2. Can you go into more details on how you portray that you have a significant other your hiding?
1. I tell them the truth, that I'm in a relationship on the rocks, that I needed to get away for a bit.

2. I'm more stringent about when and where I'll be with this one I'm trying to bang "on the side." I'll mention that I can't get away right now, or I need to get home asap. Half the time (except when I'm around her for a few mins then my distracted pain will subside and I'm happy because I'm with her now) I'll look like I'm not happy due to the ball n' chain, something tugging at me, that I do not want to return to. She can Never come to my place. Some can know where I work, but most I will not tell, because I do not want her showing up there and "surprising" me. What if my wife is there for some odd reason too??

I make rules with them, and tell them that there are just somethings she shouldn't/can't know about. It's best for both of us (to keep her in the dark about things that would have me found out about her). So often, I'll tell her, "No!" and "no" and "no" and "no." This just Kills them when they can't know or can't come to your place. I can't tell you how many times I've had them tell me, "I wanna know what the Fvck do you do ;)" or ask you for clues (and I'll give them some legit clues - like what I do is mentioned in a song but they usually never find out because women are sh!tty investigators and really stupid as sh!t and really can't do nothing worth a fvck cept fvck).
 

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omkara said:
Who cares what you think. As a woman, you are not consciously aware of what your attraction triggers are. You may think you would react one way in a hypothetical situation, and act completely different in a real situation when emotions take over. It's arrogant of you to come on here and act like your perspective is somehow relevant to those who actually have to WORK for things (men).
Stupid post is stupid.

Dont discredit the girl on the sole basis of her having a vagina. Sometimes dudes can learn a bit from a smart gal.

But about her point, TONS of times do men and women continue to screw someone even when they see through the charade. And thats usually because the sex is good or they really like them emotionally. Without either of those people would bail quick as hell.

CuriousGirl said:
I say this with a hint of salt, I know sex is awesome and when you're so horny there comes a point where you think **** it I really wanna **** and your body is saying SEX RIGHT NOW. But I stop and think do I actually want sex with this person or is it just sex I want. If it's the latter I don't sleep with them, otherwise I'd lose respect for myself, and that's when I personally regret things. Particularly if I was sleeping with someone I had no respect for, it does to some extent show a lack of respect for yourself.
Gotta agree with this. But in my case its respect for myself and an ego keeping me from having sex when its readily available to me sometimes. I just cant screw for the sake of a screw.

Like you, I want to have sex when I want to have it with that person. I dont wanna later think "ugh I could of done better for myself." So its best to jerk off first, and then think about it. lol keeps your head clear.
 

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