"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Keep the conversation going using her words...

Dreama

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I just talked to this girl but I was not satisfied with the conversation we had,

These are the things she gave me to work with

she said that:

- her parents are Russian
- she studies biology
- her ex boyfriend was German
- she wants to leave the country and go to Germany
- she never wants to get married
- she is at the dormitory most of the time
- she has a lot of male-friends (friend zoned)
- she used to live downtown and guys there are dangerous and would try to harass her
- etc




I want to know what would you come up with, according the things she said.

How would you respond and create interesting conversation out of it?


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NSX-R

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Talk to many people and practice your conversation skills. That way you will be able to adjust your words to everything. Be relaxed don't care about the outcome and you shall be fine. By trying to remember the lines that somebody told you it's going to bring you in a harder situation.
 

icantgetlaid

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Can't you take a hint bro .. do you think a girl would say that to a guy she was super attracted to?

Next her.
 
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