"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Keep smiling

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I read the dj bible and one thing that i just had to highlight was "Keep smiling".
You got a 100, smile. You got a 10, smile. You got a #, smile. You got rejected smile.

2 days ago i went out with a couple of freinds. I arrived 10 mins before my freinds and saw a 7-set (they were only girls) and i approach.
I talk with them for a bit and than ask for 1 girls #. She says "Uhh, nah" and doesn't give it. Meanwhile my freinds came and we all left, i kept smiling because i liked what i did.

After 1 min, the whole 7 set comes running down the stairs (we were in a mall) and ask me "Do you have a msn?". I took the targets # and gave my msn. When i came back home the whole 7 set add me to msn and gave me there #. I am meeting them all up tommrow.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alphamale1821

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Hell yea thats the way to do it bro, a chick rejects you don't worry about it because you know your the prize and it's her loss to miss out on you. Apparently her friend had more sense to not let you go. Just keep on smiling
 

DJDamage

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Nice.

The one thing to remember is don't smile if you are faking it. You want to be genuine about it, don't pretend to be a happy guy if you are not.

The one thing that makes me laugh is how some guys approach a chick with a smiley face, chat to her for 10 mins and then ask her for her number. If the chick rejects them all of the sudden they turn 180 degrees, the smile is gone and they end up leaving her all angry and sulking as if she just slapped them in the face.

Enter gracefully and exist gracefully, you will never know if one of her girlfriend's was watching you or other chicks in the room whom you might caught their eye. Beside's why be mad on some stranger you didn't get a number from as oppose to being mad on yourself for not having a tight game.
 

Play the Game

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It's not just a guy's problem though girls do a 180 too if you reject them.
It's really a turnoff if you lose your cool. If you walk away without affecting you it has a psychological affect on the other person.
Makes you appear valuable once you leave... like, ohh that girl was really nice i shouldn't have rejected her. Now i'm all alone. :(
It also opens the door for her to approach you again. If you get pissed walking away, she'll feel bad but won't want to talk to you.

hook, line and sinker!
 

DJDamage

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Play the Game said:
It's not just a guy's problem though girls do a 180 too if you reject them.
Girls are more emotional creatures, its almost a given that they will do it. If a guy runs around with his emotions on his sleves without a sense of control and awarness of them and his actions, he might as well be wearing panties.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Styles

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Is it okay if I smile on the inside, because sometimes my cheeks get tired.

jus kidding, good post
 
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