I've been talking to this HB8 for about a month and a half now, I am absolutely in the friend zone and I don't deny it. We're actually best friends lol. Anyways I developed feelings for her a while back went for it by telling her(I know, wrong idea lol) she said it wasn't the right time, that was that and we basically became best friends from there on. I'm not going to deny it, I still like her a lot, but I've accepted the fact we're almost gauranteed not to happen. Anyways we've been talking and she told me that she wanted to cuddle with me, so I set up an upcoming date to chill and cuddle. She kept me aware that we are just cuddling as friends and that she doesn't want to lead me on. I was like whatever k... lol. But heres the problem, In my opinion she gives me these signs that maybe she wants to be with me and then pretty much shuts all the signs down with mentioning stuff like how we're best friends and stuff. Even after she metioned how we were going to cuddle only as friends she still gave me signs showing otherwise, that we could be more. Anyways we haven't cuddled yet but hopefully it will be soon. If I do, should I make a move? Should I not even cuddle and just forget about her and move on?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Keep Pursuing or Move On?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MurdocIsGod
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Lol she's leading you on and she ****ing knows it. If she wanted to cuddle with someone why did she have to pick the guy who is interested in her, why not her gay best friend or girlfriend? And why the **** are you best friends with a girl, HOW are you best friends with a girl? They are boring compared to guys.
She's probably using you in some way. If you want a shot with her at all, randomly stop speaking to her. If you see her in real life just say "Hey
" and don't stand around and chat. When she talks to you say you've just been busy lately. Date other girls, the fun part is this, the only time you speak to this "best friend" now is to ask her advice about girls you're ****ing (you can lie and pretend you're ****ing a girl but she'll probably find out), just start a conversation like "hey I'm taking *insert hot girl's name here* out tonight, where do you think she'd like to go?"
If she gets jealous then you have a big chance to win her over if you keep doing it.
More importantly change your style AND attitude. The "friend" you needs to die and be replaced with the new "boyfriend" you. Just keep changing your personality like a chameleon until something clicks. Then have sex with her and use her forever more.
She's probably using you in some way. If you want a shot with her at all, randomly stop speaking to her. If you see her in real life just say "Hey
" and don't stand around and chat. When she talks to you say you've just been busy lately. Date other girls, the fun part is this, the only time you speak to this "best friend" now is to ask her advice about girls you're ****ing (you can lie and pretend you're ****ing a girl but she'll probably find out), just start a conversation like "hey I'm taking *insert hot girl's name here* out tonight, where do you think she'd like to go?"If she gets jealous then you have a big chance to win her over if you keep doing it.
More importantly change your style AND attitude. The "friend" you needs to die and be replaced with the new "boyfriend" you. Just keep changing your personality like a chameleon until something clicks. Then have sex with her and use her forever more.
YoYoRocks
Don Juan
You know whats gonna suck? Regret.
If you like her, man up and make a move.
You could turn it around on her, that she's really hiding her true feelings for you, and that she planned this diabolical date, saying that she's just gonna cuddle. Tell her you think its really cute and romantic. But if she tries anything, you got a rape whistle on hand just in case. Just keep ****ing around with her, do some kind of romantic ****, tell her shes got the most beautiful brown eyes you've ever seen, like big puddles of mud or very warm and soft eyes like brownies that you'd just like to take a bite into and gloss your eyes and pretend like your trying to eat her eyes and make some chomping noise. Get a little serious, look her in the eye, tell her some warm gooey **** she'll gobble up, then go in for the kiss.
I dunno, thats just some **** I'd do.
**** the repercussions, **** the anxiety, just do what you want to do. Nothing worse than denying your manhood by seeing what you want, and not taking it because your worried about whats going infinite threads of what might go wrong.
Good luck broski!:rockon:
If you like her, man up and make a move.
You could turn it around on her, that she's really hiding her true feelings for you, and that she planned this diabolical date, saying that she's just gonna cuddle. Tell her you think its really cute and romantic. But if she tries anything, you got a rape whistle on hand just in case. Just keep ****ing around with her, do some kind of romantic ****, tell her shes got the most beautiful brown eyes you've ever seen, like big puddles of mud or very warm and soft eyes like brownies that you'd just like to take a bite into and gloss your eyes and pretend like your trying to eat her eyes and make some chomping noise. Get a little serious, look her in the eye, tell her some warm gooey **** she'll gobble up, then go in for the kiss.
I dunno, thats just some **** I'd do.
**** the repercussions, **** the anxiety, just do what you want to do. Nothing worse than denying your manhood by seeing what you want, and not taking it because your worried about whats going infinite threads of what might go wrong.
Good luck broski!:rockon: