"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Keep it inproper perspective, guys.

Thread starter don't
Start date Apr 14, 2012

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Don Juan

Apr 14, 2012

A very wise man once told me"over half of the population has one of those things".

So why be so troubled about getting some of it? it's not exactly rare. Not even pretty, young, smart ones are rare, worldwide. They may be hard to get in the US, but all you need to get all you want is to be over age 18 and a US citizen.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.