"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Keep it going?

The LadyKiller

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I just met and got to know a HB8, who seems great. Though nothing "big" has happened yet, there is definite signs of attraction on both sides. However, I'm going on a two-week vacation starting tomorrow.

Maintaining the attraction over an extended period when I'm not around has always been a weak spot of mine. So, how do I keep it going? We exchanged numbers, so I guess an occasional text is possible?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

justanescort

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Lets just slow the role for a moment and back up to your comment declaring "definite signs of attraction on both sides", please clarify your assumption she is definitely attracted to you?
 

Purefilth

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justanescort said:
Lets just slow the role for a moment and back up to your comment declaring "definite signs of attraction on both sides", please clarify your assumption she is definitely attracted to you?
AAA - Always Assume Attraction

Ladykiller. Dont worry about it. If you cant nail her now, then let her miss you.

If she moves on, then they were just false IOA's anyway. If she really digs you, then she'll miss you and jump your bones when you get back.

Now Go Have FUN:D
 
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