"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Keep eye contact or no eye contact ?

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I was wondering. If you happen to be looking around and catch eye contact with someone that you're not atracted to or didn't mean to look at, is it normal to look the other way ? so far I really only try to keep eye contact with people I'm talking too or someone I like and I really don't have a problem with that.

Basically I was just asking do you keep contact or break it quickly with someone you really didn't mean to look at ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hold it for a second and look away. Don't stare.
 
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I always try and hold the eye contact longer than the person im connecting with. Even if its some chick i have no interest in, it beams confidence. Besides its good pratice for when that blonde bombshell is coming straight at you.
 
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