jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
A very good post i found!
Nice reading!
Which are the best social circles to "make" or "enter"?
Which are the best social circles to "make" or "enter"?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Keep being social
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Doctor Europeo
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That was entertaining to read. Thank you for sharing.
jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
You're welcome! If I find anything good, sharing it's a must.
It would be awesome to talk about how to really trive in 21st century society, for people who start from scratch.
For example, How do you find which are the best social circles to "make" or "enter", give the place you live?
In my town for example, soccer teams, where you can be coach or team CEO, are most common.
But I don't like the environment: toxic people around.