"Keep away" not allways good.

[Lompa]

First, i would like to say this is my only opinion and i can be teribly wrong.

There is this gril who i am intrested in that is a 7.5.
I showed her how "charming" i am and after 2 weeks i didn't talk to her for a week. Now, at that week she was so COLD to
me.

My mom has a "Don Juanita" freind that she is really good in all the dj stuff. I asked her what did i do wrong and she said that i insulted the girl and thats why she won't talk to me. Maybe i did something wrong but beware!

 

[oakraiderz2]

A week is a little long...just a bit.

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

yea i agree man, but i still think you got a chance, keep trying man.

 

[Sean O]

Hmm... sounds like yet another person who took the whole "not showing interest" thing too seriously. The proper way to deal with how much interest to show is to never show more interest in her than she does in you. If you play off like you aren't interested in her at all, or if you do what you did and snuff her for a week, she will definitely assume you're not interested, and just like in your example she might even be insulted by it. Either way, if you aren't careful she'll next you like "that".

 

[Lompa]

Hmm... sounds like yet another person who took the whole "not showing interest" thing too seriously. The proper way to deal with how much interest to show is to never show more interest in her than she does in you. If you play off like you aren't interested in her at all, or if you do what you did and snuff her for a week, she will definitely assume you're not interested, and just like in your example she might even be insulted by it. Either way, if you aren't careful she'll next you like "that".

You exactly pin-pointed my problem, thatnks.
So yes, the pont is never to show more intrest than the other side for the deal, got it.

 

[Lompa]

we had class togther today i have offerd her to sin next to me she declined and said tommrow. I almost begged her(bad move, i know i am still a DJ in his beginning of his way)but i have shown her that i don't need her.
Anyway, she is intrsted in a LTR i know it.

 

[Raikojo17]

You exactly pin-pointed my problem, thatnks.
So yes, the pont is never to show more intrest than the other side for the deal, got it.

yes, but dont take that too far now,lol. always show interest, but dont come on like she's the love of ur life. dont treat her like a god. jus show that u like ur and treat her like u would treat anyone else.

 

[Raikojo17]

we had class togther today i have offerd her to sin next to me she declined and said tommrow. I almost begged her(bad move, i know i am still a DJ in his beginning of his way)but i have shown her that i don't need her.
Anyway, she is intrsted in a LTR i know it.

hmmm, maybe, but i would just next her bro. she doesnt seem like she is interested anymore. and once they've lost interest, it's hard to get it back. it's always hard to change first impressions.

 

[Lompa]

Look, you weren't there so its hard to judge.
She was very offended by my actions meaning she does like me...
I just can feel it.

 

[PleasureKing]

aye ya yai! you cant just make it so obvious. she seriously has to believe something important came up. this whole thing about pretending to be busy / cold shoulder for a week doesnt work too well with highschool girls.

what are you going to do? just say HI again out of the blue? No my friend. you were supposed to keep communication, but just cut it down.

Instead of talking to her for 20 minutes over the phone (chump status), talk to her for 8 minutes. then cut it down to 2 minutes the next day. then dont call. then the day after, show some interest. then go up again. then go back down. then up.

thats how you keep her thinking about you IN A GOOD WAY. cold shouldering for a week will make her worry rather than wonder how busy and cool you are. (sarcasm)

you have to realize, some of the information you learn here at this site is NOT supposed to be used to its full extent on all women. Different ages think differently.

im talking out of experience here, act quick, or things will go downhill.

peace
The PleasureKing

 

[Lompa]

Guess what? i saved it.
talked to her yesterday and i alomost begged her to sit next to me(bad move and she became the prize.)She said she was hurt that i didn't talk to her (meaning she cares about me).
Today, she was on the top. I held the C+F attuitide pretty well and went on top. At the end of the class we started talking and she follwed me no qutstions asked.

Also i touched her hips even though she didn't "hop" she didn't have a problem with me putting hands on her hips.

Lesson learnd.

 

[Raikojo17]

Guess what? i saved it.
talked to her yesterday and i alomost begged her to sit next to me(bad move and she became the prize.)She said she was hurt that i didn't talk to her (meaning she cares about me).
Today, she was on the top. I held the C+F attuitide pretty well and went on top. At the end of the class we started talking and she follwed me no qutstions asked.

Also i touched her hips even though she didn't "hop" she didn't have a problem with me putting hands on her hips.

Lesson learnd.

good. just remember not to leave her hangin for so long next time.

 

[Lompa]

^Sure, thanks for the tips.

 

[PleasureKing]

Guess what? i saved it.
talked to her yesterday and i alomost begged her to sit next to me(bad move and she became the prize.)She said she was hurt that i didn't talk to her (meaning she cares about me).
Today, she was on the top. I held the C+F attuitide pretty well and went on top. At the end of the class we started talking and she follwed me no qutstions asked.

Also i touched her hips even though she didn't "hop" she didn't have a problem with me putting hands on her hips.

Lesson learnd.

good to know your treating this like a game. haha. 2 points 4u :crackup: