"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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A few of the girls I have been seeing recently have became interested in having a relationship with me. Have you any idea how to handle this? I think they get pissed off an eventually say things like "What is happening between us because this other guy likes me".
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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This is a case where you have to be honest. Actually the fact that they want a a relationship must mean your doing good in bed. As a result they want you all for themselves, since men who are good in bed are hard to come by. She might even be making the other guy up. Its powerful AFC bait but DJ's don't bite.

My advice is to keep redirecting her questions and teasing her until she manages to back you into a corner. Then tell her your expectations. It'll prevent any misunderstandings down the road and ironically it might make them want you more. Trust me, you'll screw it up more by lying.
 
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i was talking to a girl i really liked, however i wasn't ready for a relationship (she lives 2 hours away). Anyways, she invites me on a trip out of state and i couldn't make it (financial situation). She proceeds to get really upset with me and alienate me. Her interest went from red hot, to non-existant overnight--all because i didn't want a relationship.

I've never had a girl get so mad at me, for basically nothing.
 
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yeah i see what you mean man. I suppose women see this as a rejection.
 
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