"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A few of the girls I have been seeing recently have became interested in having a relationship with me. Have you any idea how to handle this? I think they get pissed off an eventually say things like "What is happening between us because this other guy likes me".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is a case where you have to be honest. Actually the fact that they want a a relationship must mean your doing good in bed. As a result they want you all for themselves, since men who are good in bed are hard to come by. She might even be making the other guy up. Its powerful AFC bait but DJ's don't bite.

My advice is to keep redirecting her questions and teasing her until she manages to back you into a corner. Then tell her your expectations. It'll prevent any misunderstandings down the road and ironically it might make them want you more. Trust me, you'll screw it up more by lying.
 
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i was talking to a girl i really liked, however i wasn't ready for a relationship (she lives 2 hours away). Anyways, she invites me on a trip out of state and i couldn't make it (financial situation). She proceeds to get really upset with me and alienate me. Her interest went from red hot, to non-existant overnight--all because i didn't want a relationship.

I've never had a girl get so mad at me, for basically nothing.
 
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yeah i see what you mean man. I suppose women see this as a rejection.
 
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