frenchbeauty
Don Juan
Good work kbear keep it up bro !
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Kbear's Lifting Journal
- Thread starter kbear0101
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Today’s Workout
Squats!
Warm-up
135lbs x 5
155lbs x 5
175lbs x 3
200lbs x 6 (did 7..might have cheated on the last one not sure if I was below parallel…calling it 6..either way it’s a PR)
Assistance
Super squats
275lbs x 8
295lbs x 8
305lbs x 8
Ab wheel for a bit…this thing is brutal…my abs and insides are always sore for like 3 days after this damn thing)
*45 min walk with dog
-skipped Good Mornings because my lower back has been spasms the last week
-my right ankle-think I hurt it doing leg presses…it does not affect my squats or assistance work…it just hurts when I point my foot at the ground and stretch it out…kinda like it needs to be popped…doesn’t hurt when I walk..but It hurts if I try to run-its felt like this since my workout on 1/26…maybe will visit a chiropractor…the pain is very mild so I am just going to go about my workouts as normal
-thanks FB! Are you on hiatus? Haven’t seen any posts from you lately
That is all…have a good weekend people!
Squats!
Warm-up
135lbs x 5
155lbs x 5
175lbs x 3
200lbs x 6 (did 7..might have cheated on the last one not sure if I was below parallel…calling it 6..either way it’s a PR)
Assistance
Super squats
275lbs x 8
295lbs x 8
305lbs x 8
Ab wheel for a bit…this thing is brutal…my abs and insides are always sore for like 3 days after this damn thing)
*45 min walk with dog
-skipped Good Mornings because my lower back has been spasms the last week
-my right ankle-think I hurt it doing leg presses…it does not affect my squats or assistance work…it just hurts when I point my foot at the ground and stretch it out…kinda like it needs to be popped…doesn’t hurt when I walk..but It hurts if I try to run-its felt like this since my workout on 1/26…maybe will visit a chiropractor…the pain is very mild so I am just going to go about my workouts as normal
-thanks FB! Are you on hiatus? Haven’t seen any posts from you lately
That is all…have a good weekend people!
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
Squats are looking good, almost up to two plates!
Keep it up.
Keep it up.
frenchbeauty
Don Juan
Hey no I'm not I've been working out hard but I'm not posting my workouts yet probably in a bitkbear0101 said:
. My diet doesn't change much week after week so I don't bother posting it."She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
Any plans to do bench variations? Good progress on all your lifts... Thanks again for the e-book.kbear0101 said:
Start of week 19
Today’s Workout
Deadlifts
115lbs x 5
135lbs x 3
185lbs x 1
205lbs x 1
225lbs x 4 (my grip didn’t give out this time! Unfortunately my form did so stopped at 4…going to resume increasing weight now that my grip is sort of catching up)
225lbs x 4
225lbs x 3
Assistance
Power Squats
295lbs x 7
315lbs x 7
315lbs x 11
Barbell Curls (palms facing the ground)
45lbs x 7
55lbs x 7
60lbs x 6
Some bicep machine
60lbs x 6 (3 sets)
*45 min walk with dog
-Fugly, what bench variations do you have in mind? I will give anything a go that will compliment increasing weight on my bench. NP
-FB, Keep at it! Effort helped me out with my diet also…veryyyy similar to yours
That’s all…
Today’s Workout
Deadlifts
115lbs x 5
135lbs x 3
185lbs x 1
205lbs x 1
225lbs x 4 (my grip didn’t give out this time! Unfortunately my form did so stopped at 4…going to resume increasing weight now that my grip is sort of catching up)
225lbs x 4
225lbs x 3
Assistance
Power Squats
295lbs x 7
315lbs x 7
315lbs x 11
Barbell Curls (palms facing the ground)
45lbs x 7
55lbs x 7
60lbs x 6
Some bicep machine
60lbs x 6 (3 sets)
*45 min walk with dog
-Fugly, what bench variations do you have in mind? I will give anything a go that will compliment increasing weight on my bench. NP
-FB, Keep at it! Effort helped me out with my diet also…veryyyy similar to yours
That’s all…
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
No need to switch bench yet if it is still going up.
You've been at 225lbs on the dead for a little while now, it would be a good idea to resume 5/3/1 on it.
You've been at 225lbs on the dead for a little while now, it would be a good idea to resume 5/3/1 on it.
Today’s Workout
Standing Military Press
Warm-up
75lbs x 5
90lbs x 5
100lbs x 5
100lbs x 4
Assistance:
Shoulder Press Machine
130lbs x 8 (2 sets)
130lbs x 7
Kroc Rows
60lbs x 5 (3 sets)
One Armed Cable Lat Pull downs
60lbs x 8
70lbs x 8
80lbs x 8
Weighted sit-ups
Weight x 10 (3 sets)
*45 min walk with dog
Have a good weekend people!
Standing Military Press
Warm-up
75lbs x 5
90lbs x 5
100lbs x 5
100lbs x 4
Assistance:
Shoulder Press Machine
130lbs x 8 (2 sets)
130lbs x 7
Kroc Rows
60lbs x 5 (3 sets)
One Armed Cable Lat Pull downs
60lbs x 8
70lbs x 8
80lbs x 8
Weighted sit-ups
Weight x 10 (3 sets)
*45 min walk with dog
Have a good weekend people!
Today’s Workout:
Squats!
Warmup
140lbs x 5
165lbs x 5
190lbs x 7 (form felt strong…went deep on all of them)
Assistance:
Wide Stance Squats in the Smith Machine
135lbs x 5
185lbs x 4
185lbs x 5
Weighted Sit-ups
3 sets of 10
*45 min walk with dog
- didn’t do any leg press exercises because I am doing deadlifts on Friday and wanted to take some strain off my right ankle…need to visit a chiropractor or doctor…it has not gotten better
-Attention! I have gained my first 10 lbs!!! …halfway to my goal : )
That’s all people
Squats!
Warmup
140lbs x 5
165lbs x 5
190lbs x 7 (form felt strong…went deep on all of them)
Assistance:
Wide Stance Squats in the Smith Machine
135lbs x 5
185lbs x 4
185lbs x 5
Weighted Sit-ups
3 sets of 10
*45 min walk with dog
- didn’t do any leg press exercises because I am doing deadlifts on Friday and wanted to take some strain off my right ankle…need to visit a chiropractor or doctor…it has not gotten better
-Attention! I have gained my first 10 lbs!!! …halfway to my goal : )
That’s all people
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
Congrats on your weight and strength gain!
Keep it up!
Keep it up!
Today’s Workout:
Incline Press
135lbs x (5-8 reps) (3 sets)
Bench Press
135lbs x (5-8 reps) (3 sets)
Dips
BW x 8, 10 (Wrist hurt could only do 2 sets)
Tricep Pushdowns
Forgot weight x (10-13) (5 sets)
*45 min walk with dog
- my workout got skewed today because my friend wanted to do incline first…was tired when I got to bench…couldn’t do my 5/3/1 weight today it was too heavy by that time…decent workout though
-need to focus on keeping my wrists straight they are bending back…no good!
That’s all
Incline Press
135lbs x (5-8 reps) (3 sets)
Bench Press
135lbs x (5-8 reps) (3 sets)
Dips
BW x 8, 10 (Wrist hurt could only do 2 sets)
Tricep Pushdowns
Forgot weight x (10-13) (5 sets)
*45 min walk with dog
- my workout got skewed today because my friend wanted to do incline first…was tired when I got to bench…couldn’t do my 5/3/1 weight today it was too heavy by that time…decent workout though
-need to focus on keeping my wrists straight they are bending back…no good!
That’s all
Start of Week 20
Today’s Workout:
Deadlifts
135lbs x 3
185lbs x 1
205lbs x 1
235lbs x 4
235lbs x 4
235lbs x 1
Wide Stance Squats in the Smith Machine (put a small box and touched my a$$ to it to make sure I didn’t miss any reps)
135lbs x 5
185lbs x 5
185lbs x 5
155lbs x 7
Barbell Curls (palms facing ground)
60lbs x 7 (3 sets)
70-80lbs x (4-6) on some bicep machine
*45 min walk with dog
Have a good weekend ppl
Today’s Workout:
Deadlifts
135lbs x 3
185lbs x 1
205lbs x 1
235lbs x 4
235lbs x 4
235lbs x 1
Wide Stance Squats in the Smith Machine (put a small box and touched my a$$ to it to make sure I didn’t miss any reps)
135lbs x 5
185lbs x 5
185lbs x 5
155lbs x 7
Barbell Curls (palms facing ground)
60lbs x 7 (3 sets)
70-80lbs x (4-6) on some bicep machine
*45 min walk with dog
Have a good weekend ppl
Today’s Workout
Standing Military Press
Warm-up
85lbs x 3
95lbs x 3
110lbs x 5
110lbs x 3
Assistance
Shoulder Press Machine
140lbs x (6 or 7) (4 sets)
Kroc Rows
60lbs x 5
65lbs x 5
65lbs x 5
One arm cable rows
60lbs x 7
80lbs x 7
100lbs x 7
*45 min walk with dog
That’s all
Standing Military Press
Warm-up
85lbs x 3
95lbs x 3
110lbs x 5
110lbs x 3
Assistance
Shoulder Press Machine
140lbs x (6 or 7) (4 sets)
Kroc Rows
60lbs x 5
65lbs x 5
65lbs x 5
One arm cable rows
60lbs x 7
80lbs x 7
100lbs x 7
*45 min walk with dog
That’s all
Today’s Workout:
Squats!
Warmup
135lbs x 5
155lbs x 3
175lbs x 3
200lbs x 7
Assistance
Leg extension
175lbs x 8 (3 sets)
Lower Back Machine
80-100lbs x 8 (3 sets)
Weighted situps
4 or 5 sets
*45 min walk with dog
-gonna scrap any form of leg presses for 2 weeks to give my ankle some sort of rest…subbing in leg extensions, prone leg curls, glue ham raises when I find a place where I can do them…crap just realized I forgot to do hamstrings while I was there…any suggestions on replacement assistance for legs that doesn’t involve using your ankle? Otherwise I am continuing 5/3/1 as normal just no leg pressing movements for 2 weeks
Squats!
Warmup
135lbs x 5
155lbs x 3
175lbs x 3
200lbs x 7
Assistance
Leg extension
175lbs x 8 (3 sets)
Lower Back Machine
80-100lbs x 8 (3 sets)
Weighted situps
4 or 5 sets
*45 min walk with dog
-gonna scrap any form of leg presses for 2 weeks to give my ankle some sort of rest…subbing in leg extensions, prone leg curls, glue ham raises when I find a place where I can do them…crap just realized I forgot to do hamstrings while I was there…any suggestions on replacement assistance for legs that doesn’t involve using your ankle? Otherwise I am continuing 5/3/1 as normal just no leg pressing movements for 2 weeks
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Today’s Workout:
Bench Press
Warmup
135lbs x 3
145lbs x 3
160lbs x 5
Assistance
Incline Press Machine
150lbs x 8
150lbs x 8
150lbs x 7
Dips
BWx8 (3 sets)
Tricep Pushdowns
100lbs x 6-8 (3 sets)
*45 min walk with dog
have a good weekend people!
Bench Press
Warmup
135lbs x 3
145lbs x 3
160lbs x 5
Assistance
Incline Press Machine
150lbs x 8
150lbs x 8
150lbs x 7
Dips
BWx8 (3 sets)
Tricep Pushdowns
100lbs x 6-8 (3 sets)
*45 min walk with dog
have a good weekend people!
Start of Week 21
Today’s Workout
Deadlifts
135lbs x 3
185lbs x 1
205lbs x 1
225lbs x 1
250lbs x 3 (grip failed, wieght was not too bad)
250lbs x 1
225lbs x 4
225lbs x 4
185lbs x 6
Assistance
Barbell Curls
65lbs x 5 (3 sets)
Pretty drained…stopped here
*45 min walk with dog
Until next time…
Today’s Workout
Deadlifts
135lbs x 3
185lbs x 1
205lbs x 1
225lbs x 1
250lbs x 3 (grip failed, wieght was not too bad)
250lbs x 1
225lbs x 4
225lbs x 4
185lbs x 6
Assistance
Barbell Curls
65lbs x 5 (3 sets)
Pretty drained…stopped here
*45 min walk with dog
Until next time…
Today’s Workout:
Standing Military Press
Warm-up
75lbs x 5
90lbs x 3
115lbs x 4 (PR, took everything in me to get the last rep up)
95lbs x 6
Assistance
Shoulder Press Machine
150lbs x (5- 6reps) (4 sets)
Barbell Shrugs
135lbs x 10
205lbs x 10
225lbs x 10
225lbs x 5
185lbs x 16
Rear deltoid machine
Various weights ranging up to 120 lbs x (5-10reps) (4 or 5 sets)
*45 min walk with dog
-pleased with my session today…until Friday!
Standing Military Press
Warm-up
75lbs x 5
90lbs x 3
115lbs x 4 (PR, took everything in me to get the last rep up)
95lbs x 6
Assistance
Shoulder Press Machine
150lbs x (5- 6reps) (4 sets)
Barbell Shrugs
135lbs x 10
205lbs x 10
225lbs x 10
225lbs x 5
185lbs x 16
Rear deltoid machine
Various weights ranging up to 120 lbs x (5-10reps) (4 or 5 sets)
*45 min walk with dog
-pleased with my session today…until Friday!
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
That's a lot of volume on your deadlift day! Sheizaa! How did your lower back feel afterwards? Same w/ your last work out. Are you noticing the higher volume sessions are giving you good results?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.