"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kate and Prince William: What we can learn

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Hi there guys. This is the most famous story out there.
We know they've split for less than a year, and came back togheter, still today.
There is something that made them to change and commit one to the other.
If I recall, there also is a dedicated book to it.

I think we can learn that after a woman lose firstly, her love to a man, second, her respect to a man, she will actually stay for the following reasons: status, wealth, presence of social outcomes, presence of kids or commitments.

That's it so we can actually learn and explain what many people out there thinks those realtionship are for "love" or "reconciliation".
It's just two people committing to one or multiple goals in their life, love to be present or not.
Most often because the investiment was made years ago, and cannot be undone.

(So women stay "doing anything possible for her husband", So men stay and get disrespected)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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