"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kanye West doesn't want his babies to model for playboy or be strippers...

mrgoodstuff

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I just heard about that about Kanye voicing his concern, that his wifes family might push for one of his babies to be in playboy or be a stripper. Which some dads would be concerned about, especially when dealing with a family who doesn't see a problem with it.


So anyway they keep mentioning Kanye as "bi-polar". If one of us had to deal with a controlling, behive minded, manipulative and exploitative group we would also suffer emotional distress. Hi's and lows. Them wanting to have him committed for "bi-polar" seems to be one of control.

Many of us men would have differing viewpoints than that family group. If we stuffed it down and shut our mouth, eventually we would get tired of that. If we didn't leave, we'd become eternally frustrated, shut down, distressed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kanye is unfortunately not in control of his mental illness.

Still, no one pointed a gun at his head and told him to marry her. Gents, you have a CHOICE in who you marry and have children with. Think about the kind of role model she will be for your daughter. Don’t be like Kanye.
If you know anything about bipolar, being manipulated or stressed makes it 10x worse. If he wouldn't have to deal with so much bullshyt he would be much better off.

And still that family, she married Kris Humphries in a design to get more attention and a greater comeup later. That family would manipulate and force the man, and most men would end up with mental problems, if they didn't go into the situation with them.
 
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