"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rawk Steady

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Nuff said. The beloved Chiefs are smoking the Raiders right now, how sweet it is.

Need a wingman to join forces and tackle Westport.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rawk, I've been looking for a wing man to tackle westport with for ages! I'll send ya a message...

later
 
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hell guys let me know if u need a third i just moved to kc. every one i know never wants to go to west port. I just want to check it out see if its anything like my old town.. from what i hear there has to be a motherlaod of women out there
 
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Hey jaysgt, welcome to the 'hood! Intense told me you were out there, the neighborly thing to do would be introduce a fellow DJ to westport. PM me if ya want, one of us will get in touch soon.
 
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This is an extremely old thread, but I live about an hour from Kansas City and I am tired of the local bars in my college town.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FireOnTheMountain

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Just bumping this. I am still around on the forums and in KC. Actually I am moving to Lee's Summit soon, which is way closer than where I used to live.

If there were three other people from here on these boards back in 2003, surely there's at least one out there now.
 
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