"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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K/W area, Ontario Canada

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Hey guys.

I'm looking for a wing, or more accurately just some DJ's that like to go out and do fun ****, as my friends are either a bit on the boring side (play lots of WoW) or moved away for the summer.

I'm a 20 year old UW student, not a master PUA by any stretch, but I do alright. Really as I said, I just want to meet some people my age to have fun with as going to clubs/parties alone isn't terribly fun. If I can improve my game in the process, all the better.

Anyone living around here and is around my age, post, or PM me.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Heard summer is going to be a little challenge around there as Laurier from my understanding is pretty much shut down...but yeah I was planning on going with some friends this weekend clubbing any venues you'd recommend?
 
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Yeah Laurier is kind of slow at the moment. Waterloo still has about half the usual student population though so its not too bad (but UW doesn't party that much to begin with).

Personally I like Rev. I hear Elements isn't bad but have never been. I'd avoid FUBAR, as every time I've gone it was deserted.

Where are you guys from?
 
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Well I just polished off my first year at UW, right now I'm in T.o for the summer but I've got a few friends of mine still in town (as they just got of their co-op term). I've personally been told by girls that they hate fubar hands down and they love clubbin in REV. Haven't heard of Elements but a friend of mine mentioned Cesar Martini's is something I should look into.
 
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Yeah Caesar's isn't bad. It's a pretty small place, bit more upscale - ie they actually have a dress code which I think is a dress shirt, but I'm not sure.

Lol jeeze dude, no invite?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey, in the toronto area and desperate to get out and learn from some fellow DJs. (as I'm kinda in need of help with my game.) please consider getting in touch if you guys ever come down this way.
 
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Anybody wants to meet up to sarge at Caesers tomorrow night? Let me know...
 
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School started now so Caersers is running Thursdays (cheap mixed drinks.. $3 i think).. Fridays ($3.50 import beer) and regular Saturdays...

Right next door 140 West is looking nice.. they are 21+ with a dress code as well.. I've checked it out and I will go back...

If you do want to meet up this week (other than Saturday) let me know!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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