k have a gf and went to her friend b day party-whom i met her female friends and 2 of

[joe45]

k have a gf and went to her friend b day party-whom i met her female friends and 2 of them are like 27 and are dating like 40 yr old guys. one is 40 and the other is like 41. this for me seems kind of strange as i never had friends or met anyone like this before. what do you guys think of this and why do girls date so guys sooo old.
also i wonder why a guy that age so old wouldnt be married or have kids already. hmmm guys at my church who are around that age are already married and have 2 kids.

just want to hear what you guys think about it . thats all. i think its a little weird .
one is a civil engineer and the other one is a insurance underwriter. hmmm. they are super rich, but not poor. they are settled i guess

 

[Slickster]

Dude you are pushing 30 in a few years so your whole concept of "old" is going to change pretty quickly. Once you get older you are going to realize that age isn't a number but a mindset.

Young girls love older guys because they are confident and sure of themselves. Actual men instead of confused and insecure 20-something boys.

The best time to womanize young chicks is in your early 30's. Next time you are in the presence of those "old" guys watch and learn. Better yet ask questions.

 

[vagrant]

Dude you are pushing 30 in a few years so your whole concept of "old" is going to change pretty quickly. Once you get older you are going to realize that age isn't a number but a mindset.

Young girls love older guys because they are confident and sure of themselves. Actual men instead of confused and insecure 20-something boys.

The best time to womanize young chicks is in your early 30's. Next time you are in the presence of those "old" guys watch and learn. Better yet ask questions.

You mentioned that age isn't a number but a mindset, but to me age is just a number and definitely not a mind set.

The best time to womanize young chicks is NOW. Most guys I know don't know how to game chicks whether they are 20s, 30s, 40s, or 50s. I'm only 22 but I'm already realizing that time won't change me at all. I have to do that for myself.

Most older guys are not confident and sure of themselves. Most men TODAY, young and old are AFCs to the bone. It's rare that you will find a true DJ so we're lucky to know this site.

Just my opinion. I don't mean to be a smart ass. It is a discussion forum after all.

 

[vagrant]

k have a gf and went to her friend b day party-whom i met her female friends and 2 of them are like 27 and are dating like 40 yr old guys. one is 40 and the other is like 41. this for me seems kind of strange as i never had friends or met anyone like this before. what do you guys think of this and why do girls date so guys sooo old.
also i wonder why a guy that age so old wouldnt be married or have kids already. hmmm guys at my church who are around that age are already married and have 2 kids.

just want to hear what you guys think about it . thats all. i think its a little weird .
one is a civil engineer and the other one is a insurance underwriter. hmmm. they are super rich, but not poor. they are settled i guess

Are you trying to define life?!?!?!?!? Just enjoy it bro. We're all different and crazy in many ways. I have so many things I love that you probably hate in terms of cars, food, women, sports and everything.

If I focus on other people I can go on and on and on and on why people do certain things, date these people, get these jobs, eat these foods, drive these cars, etc. At the end of the day though, I need to worry not about what they want to do with the little time they have on this earth. I need to worry on how I want to spend my 100 dollar bill. Yup, you got 100 years. I know we don't but the questions is. How will you spend those 100 dollars?

Right now you're spending your precious dollar thinking about those 40 year old virgins who don't have any kids. You're throwing your money away. Focus on living the life that you want. You should be asking yourself, do I want to have kids? Instead of, why don't they have kids? Focus on your life bro. Trust me, real DJs do exactly that and women are crazy for them.

 

[Slickster]

You mentioned that age isn't a number but a mindset, but to me age is just a number and definitely not a mind set.

The best time to womanize young chicks is NOW. Most guys I know don't know how to game chicks whether they are 20s, 30s, 40s, or 50s. I'm only 22 but I'm already realizing that time won't change me at all. I have to do that for myself.

Most older guys are not confident and sure of themselves. Most men TODAY, young and old are AFCs to the bone. It's rare that you will find a true DJ so we're lucky to know this site.

Just my opinion. I don't mean to be a smart ass. It is a discussion forum after all.

Maybe when you get older you might see it my way.

I'm 37 and still feel and act like I did when I was 27 so for me it is a mindset. Several of my good buddies though feel as though they HAD to grow up at some point. They completely changed their lives and attitudes to reflect the number.

You are right about AFC's being everywhere. If you have it all figured out at 22 then good on you. Most guys don't and many start figuring it out later in life. The more experience you have under your belt the easier it gets. Then you look back at your 20's and wonder why you didn't realize it.

I thought I had life figured out in my 20's too. It's funny how things change.

 

[TheCzar]

Most men are AFC at every age segment, it's unavoidable and will be the case today and 500 years from now. Not everyone can be alpha and most males accept acquiesce to take a beta or lesser role at a fairly young age.

Oddly, I get a hint of jealousy and insecurity from your post. Being that I'm in my 40s and have had GFs in there 20s and 30s I can say it all has to do with 2 factors 1) I project a confident, stable, fun and exciting status 2) I don't get hung up about my age - most women think I'm 8+ years younger than I am, and I don't give into the social convention of "act your age"

That said I think the main point you miss is that women are attracted to STATUS over looks, a 40 year old, if he's played his cards right has typically much higher status over a 20 something and if you're fun, exciting and have a life you've got the ingredients to have any woman you'd desire - seriously this is fact, played it out many many times.

TC