Jw, has anyone PURPOSELY tried being clingy..

[Scars]

Just to get a girl off his nuts FOR GOOD? I'm kind of in a dilemma because there girl is underage (She told me she was 18 when she was really 16 and I didn't find out until after I had sex with her). Normally, I'd just straight ignore her afterward or just be a **** and tell her to leave me a lone, but I don't want her to retaliate and do something stupid, so I've devised a plan where I purposely "break the rules" until she loses enough interest to leave me a lone. Luckily, she lives a town away so I don't have to see her. I've been making up a lot of excuses to not go down and see her, I've been telling her I've been busy at work mostly (which is also very true), but she knows my work schedule and always wants to hang out on my "free time" in which I always have to pull something out of my @$$ on why I can't go. I'm thinking if I text her every day, telling her "I miss you" and maybe even I "love" you like 15 times a day she will get bored of me. It seems like a lot of work, but I'd rather put a week of clingyness into this b!tch then have her constantly annoying me for these next few months or doing something stupid.

Is this a stupid idea or what?

 

[JCballin88]

I think this one girl seems like she's controlling your life too much as it is!

She lied, you ****ed her, you seem to regret it. Why should you, as an aspiring DJ, have to "break rules" and spend WAY more time than you should have to just to get her off your back? Delete/block her number, ignore her in person, etc. Unless you do still have feelings for her, this shouldn't be a big deal.

I would say just try to shut her off for good. Make sure it's clear that you are upset about her deceiving you, and that you have no room in your life for lying skanks.

Be the better guy and live your OWN life - don't let her dictate it any more than she already has!

 

[Scars]

I'm not letting her control my life, I'm trying to be safe from a legal standpoint. I have ignored her, and it seems like it is only making her MORE interested in me. This girl is starting to show signs of BPD, so I just don't want any drama. I'd rather let this ease out smoothly. I have already tried blocking her number, but she finds ways to call/text me through other people's phones.

 

[dj_china]

yes, be super clingy and annoying (i think this is actually a really good idea!)
but dont just do "i love you"
send her updates about your life all the time

"im going to work now, miss you"
"im sleepy"
"im getting coffee at starbucks, wish you were here too"
"this coffee is gross, im going to dunkin now"
"**** i hate my boss"

and dont forget to ask "what are you doing" every 15 minutes

 

[Mandiblard]

yes, be super clingy and annoying (i think this is actually a really good idea!)
but dont just do "i love you"
send her updates about your life all the time

"im going to work now, miss you"
"im sleepy"
"im getting coffee at starbucks, wish you were here too"
"this coffee is gross, im going to dunkin now"
"**** i hate my boss"

and dont forget to ask "what are you doing" every 15 minutes

LOL perfect

 

[goodfoot]

That's sounds like a horrible idea from a legal standpoint. Think what would happen if those texts came out in a a court case.

 

[scribblec]

That's sounds like a horrible idea from a legal standpoint. Think what would happen if those texts came out in a a court case.

goodpoint, but i thought if they lied to you then u got off scott free?
i mean if she told u she was 16 and u ****ed her then ur ****ed
but if she said shes 18 and then turns out after shes not is that ur responsibility?

 

[Warrior74]

Yah its fvcking stupid. You are afraid. Stop living in fear. Your in a possible bad spot, but its only a possiblity and what is the real likely hood that she's gonna go to the cops? Mostly its the parents who press the statutory rape charges...just taper off contact, start being busy and stop talking/texting her. You are making it worse by telling her you love her. Stop digging your own grave here.

 

[Darth_Qurashi]

I don't think it will work man. It'll take more than week . She's a young girl, being more clingy will probably make her feel more confident that you like her, and she'll get the wrong idea and think you actually want to be with her.

You gotta man up and break up with her. Accept the responsibility of making the mistake of hooking up with her. And even if she does some stupid ****, it shoudn't scare you into comin up with this tactic.

You have to make it clear that its what you want and just do it right, even if she cries or gets mad, at least she'll understand eventually your situation. It sounds like ur original plan is prbly gonna backfire, but if u use some other excuse or try to play with her mind, she'll prbly hate you more when she realizes it, think ur less of a man, and will have a more reason to retaliate or watever u think she'll do.

 

[amoka]

A girl her age, being clingy purposely to get ride of her will BACKFIRE. Her level of thinking is way below and she is probably thinking ( and telling her friends) she FOUND love. Avoid this strategy at all cost. Try treating her like your sister: Call her and say sh!ts like:
"Hey what did you do at school today?",
"Do you have any homework"?
"Did the guys hit on you at the supermarket?"

 

[horaholic]

Ask her for a threesome. You'll win either way that one turns out!

 

[Jean Valjean]

no never tried it on purpose but had it work that way to get rid of them when I was all AFC clingy

 

[12AJ12]

Pulling a Mogsby eh?
The girls 16 not 26. I would save that routine for somebody who's old enough to realize how a relationship is actually suppose to work. Otherwise it'd be a great idea.