escaleraroyal
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Justin Beiber
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
He is not a PUA he is famous which is better than being a PUA.
A PUA still has to do the work while a celebrity has women throwing themselves at him. Or even better like Tiger woods he has his agent go get him the women he wants.
Just imagine being rich and famous and seeing some woman you absolutely want and just telling your agent to go get her for you. You know she wont turn down the chance to meet you. Tiger had people do that for him.
A PUA still has to do the work while a celebrity has women throwing themselves at him. Or even better like Tiger woods he has his agent go get him the women he wants.
Just imagine being rich and famous and seeing some woman you absolutely want and just telling your agent to go get her for you. You know she wont turn down the chance to meet you. Tiger had people do that for him.
ChalengeGuyFan
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He's a kid doing his thing for whoever likes it. Good for him! Hope he's happy!
Now I'll go back to my own life.
Now I'll go back to my own life.
Razor Sharp
Senior Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
nismo-4
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He's famous. Get off his jock.
Leave my courtroom and go live your own goddamn life and improve it as you see fit. Make your life work for you like Beiber did his.
Leave my courtroom and go live your own goddamn life and improve it as you see fit. Make your life work for you like Beiber did his.
The Message Boy
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This thread is just a prime example of how stupid and cartoonish this site has become.
Is Justin Beiber a DJ? WTF? The guy is selling out concerts, selling records through the roof, and has millions of girls around the WORLD screaming over him.
His video on Youtube has three hundred million views.
SOSUAVE and it's associated "tips" do not relate to real life you sick-o. In case you haven't got the memo, Sosuave is nothing but a site where insecure guys come and whine about women and old mature "bitter" men come and talk about how the sky is falling because women are out to get us.
I'll be leaving this site for GOOD soon.
Is Justin Beiber a DJ? WTF? The guy is selling out concerts, selling records through the roof, and has millions of girls around the WORLD screaming over him.
His video on Youtube has three hundred million views.
SOSUAVE and it's associated "tips" do not relate to real life you sick-o. In case you haven't got the memo, Sosuave is nothing but a site where insecure guys come and whine about women and old mature "bitter" men come and talk about how the sky is falling because women are out to get us.
I'll be leaving this site for GOOD soon.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
He's a product. Like soap.The Message Boy said:
I'm more impressed by his agent. You think Bieber can sell out concerts through the roof by himself? And records? He's just some 15 year old kid with a voice.
You'll see that when he crashes and burns like the countless other child stars before him.
Bye
Nygard
Senior Don Juan
****ing Bieber, I dislike his voice. I wish he had stayed in hockey instead.